Just wondering.. does anyone really count giving a b-l-o-w j-o-b as having sex? Yes, I understand that it usually leads that way, but what if it doesn't?
2007-03-18 11:05:16 · 19 answers · asked by Ashley S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, if you are in a committed relationship and you give another man oral sex, then I class that as infedility. You may not actually have sex, but you are preferring to be intimate with another man. If you have never had intercourse and only given oral sex to maintain your virginity, then no, oral sex does not count as sex. It is an intimate encounter regardless of anything and I guess it depends on your situation as to whether you count it as sex. Like I said, if you are in a committed relationship and you have had oral sex with someone else, then yes, you have had sex...you have betrayed the trust of your husband. Physically speaking though, you havent had sex....there was no penetration, but you definitely have been intimate with the man.
2007-03-18 11:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No my husband and i do not call our count it as having sex. It is oral sex and that is it ... To me it is not no where near as good as the real thing and he does not think so either lol.
2007-03-18 18:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess to an extent it's sex. Either you do that and then it leads to sex or if you just want to make him happy just leave it at a BJ.
2007-03-18 18:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's called oral sex. You can also catch any disease your partner has, the same as having vaginal sex. Use a condom for that type sex also.
2007-03-18 18:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think that it is a form of sex.
2007-03-18 18:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by blondieT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it involve ejaculation/orgasm?
Well then it is sex. It's a specific type of sex (oral sex) among other specific types (anal sex, digital sex, dry humping etc) and that means that it falls into the category of "general sex"
2007-03-18 18:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by Cassandra G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Anytime any sexual body part is nekkid, and there are bodily fluids being exchanged, it's called sex...omg, no wonder there are so many unwanted pregnancies...sheesh!
2007-03-18 18:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by Luvy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure seems like sex to me.
2007-03-18 18:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does, it is so much more than just sex
2007-03-18 18:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It still counts dude!!! It is still a form of intimacy or shareing yourself with another.
2007-03-18 18:11:06 · answer #10 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋