I've been seeing this man for awhile now. He has used his finger only once. Whats up with that! does this means he don't want me. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-18 11:05:11 · 7 answers · asked by patty m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some men are pretty slow starters, they feel unsure if it is really what you want. Maybe he is very inexperienced with sex. Sometimes it is downright frustrating when they are so slow in making their intentions clear and sometimes you may have to be a little bit more assertive and tell him what you want. There is no crime in a woman taking the initiative, and maybe thats what hes waiting for.....Maybe the both of you are thinkiing the same thing...maybe hes thinking you dont want him and thats the reason he is taking it slowly....he is testing the waters so to speak. If you are more assertive, then maybe it will become very clear that he would love to make love to you. If he still doesnt pick up on the fact that you want him to make love to you....maybe you have to be blunt and just tell him. Not all men are the aggressors, not all men feel confident in initiating the sex. Show him, talk to him, and then very quickly it will become clear that he either wants to make love to you or he doesnt. Just be yourself and be ufront, you will soon get your answer.
Oh dear, that John b is a sick dude, he needs psychiatric help
Good luck
2007-03-18 11:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl take him arouse suck his ear rub his penis through his pants if he get hard u know he wants u. tease him at first though. like do things that turn him on so bad then get up and walk to ur room lay on they bed i.f he follows girl ur in for some fun. if he deosn't . get naked and if he is in front of the tv walk right in front of it . it will work i promise :P
2007-03-18 11:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by missy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu know when your lover wants to have sex when he is like yo, let's have sex.
2007-03-18 11:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. There is nothing wrong with you instigating sex either.
2007-03-18 11:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him whats going on... the other answer here was from someone abusive, and they were reported!
2007-03-18 11:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.
2007-03-18 11:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol....ask him
2007-03-18 11:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋