Ok so I am moving and my bff acts like im not.. she always has everyone over but me! She says just because im moving she cant ditch everyone else, so what is she going to do have me over the last two weeks? Am i allowed to get mad at her?!? The only problem is she proably wont care if im mad at her.. HELP!
2007-03-18 11:03:19 · 5 answers · asked by Tigeress12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
either she isnt a real friend, or is having trouble coping with you leaving. its time to hav a talk with her, and see wut her true feelings are. go on from there
2007-03-18 11:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by astralprojector 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be experiencing a sort of emotional retreat, because she knows you'll be gone soon & she isn't coping well. Why don't you have some "going away" get-toethers. Give them a theme about where you're moving to... or not. Maybe just a Hawaiian theme, or a Mexican theme. Have fun. She'll be able to cope better, and I bet you anything, she'll invite you to her place too.
2007-03-18 18:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by bwlobo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be trying to avoid you to make the move easier on herself... does that make sense? she probably wants to see you but maybe she feels too upset about it all when she does... it's alright for you to be mad at her... i would be! if she's a good friend she will realise what she's doing is wrong and spend time with you before you leave
2007-03-18 18:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by dbx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is invite her. and you really have to push for it. do something you both love to do and have lots of fun. try to hint out that you want to spend time with her
2007-03-18 18:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by Meaghan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate only hurts the hater
2007-03-18 18:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by Howdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋