Well my sister and I were close when we were younger but when I went to college she had a rebelious spurt also I was once engaged and she never liked my fiance' this caused a rift between us, but when I left the ex or yet when he left me things began to get better... But now she has a boyfriend and I once stated that I would never tell my sister if I saw him cheating but I would lead her to finding out.. I dont start trouble but anyway hes always saying Lee youre really pretty and he smiles at me behind my sisters back... once he even rubbed his private area and mouthed at me to "ride it"... now I know if I tell my sister she would swear up and down I was just being spiteful I try to avoid him whenever he comes over but he seeks me out to mouth and do all these provocative gestures.. I know my sister she will swear and she'll think I want him and stuff.. Last night he came into my room and grabbed my thigh and tried to rub my intimate area.. Im fed up thats sexual harrasment
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4 hours ago
I want to tell her but I dont want her being mad at me when she asks him and he say no I didnt... When my sister "falls in love" the guy can tell her Im an alien and she'll believe him..
I told him that if he ever touches me again he might not live to regret it.. he just smiled and walked out of the room... My sister is soo oblivious to everything she notices nothing.. he flirts with me when all 3 of us are even in the same room!
2007-03-18 10:43:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I would let her find out in her own way. just be sure you are not alone with him in the same room. lock your bed room door if possible or put something against it so he can't open it.
as long as you are not giving him any signals that it is okay . he will be caught by your sister.. telling her will do no good she will blame you .. ignore him. if he sees you are not bothered by him he will give up...
2007-03-18 10:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the room when the boyfriend comes over. Or leave the house til he leaves and not say where your going. Remember bloods thicker than water.
2007-03-18 17:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by Moose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her this. If she still blames you then continue to avoid this pig of a guy and avoid your sister too. You don't need people like that complicating your life.
2007-03-18 17:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. That way when he cheats on her for real you'll know that you tried. She's your sister, what would you want her to do if the situation were reversed?
2007-03-18 17:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by JenJen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some way you are going to have to get some way of telling her.
This is P&S, so you would probably do better in Relationships category,
2007-03-18 17:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her dont let it go on, and if she doesnt believe hen let her get hurt if its the only way....if she wont listen then let her suffer as long as if its for the best, telll her how much you care about her and tell her whats been going on and let her know that youre not making it up...point it out in public for her to see herself!
2007-03-18 17:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by dani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"_______, I don't want to be the bearer of bad news, but the next time your creep boyfriend comes in my room and tries to rub my private pieces, I'm either shooting him or calling the cops."
2007-03-18 17:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jen F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is bad, I was engaged an my ex fell for my sister and left me for her.......do something....tell her something...GOOD LUCK
2007-03-18 17:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents not your sister!! Do it Now!! "Ride Me" is not cute. Fix his @ss!!!
2007-03-18 17:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"cen u tell ur bf not to touch himself in front of me, i kno its probablee a joke..but its making me uncomfortable" - maybe? â¥
2007-03-18 17:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋