2007-03-18 10:43:07 · 32 answers · asked by emma 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The joyous satisfaction of popping the deluded heads of those people that have managed to evade isolation, heartaches, misery, and defeat. The fact of the matter is that most couples have this wonderful facade that their lives are so much richer, complex and robust than those around them which of course is false as evidenced by the high divorce rate in this country.
I think for some it is the desire to reveal delusion in another and thereby they believe they gain a deeper understanding of the human dynamic, but they are also miserable and ruining another couple's attempt to live a happy life does nothing for them in the end.
2007-03-25 10:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by RHJ Cortez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Few things happen uni-directionally, ie, single person targets a married person and then sets out to wreck that marriage.
There is usually an action/reaction. The married person has to show some form of interest or overt friendliness that leads to the start of an affair that could take it down the treacherous path of total home wreck. It might be unfair to call that married person "weak" but therefore to be blamed. What I am saying is that it is not just the work of the so-called home-wrecker.
Basically, the single person could be in the pursuit of happiness (or rid of the loneliness of being single), the illusion of the married status, stability or meal ticket, and so on and so forth. But these are all fair game, nothing wrong with that. Takes 2 to tango.
2007-03-18 11:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say nothing. Why would anyone want to put another couples life upside down just because they are not happy? To make others miserable with them. If you have people like that in your life you should kick them to the curb.
2007-03-25 16:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by The only good blu is a dead blu! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends....
If that someone JUST HAPPENS TO HAVE A HEART, then he will not get more than BLAME from his own heart to himself.
If he is coupled with a hear of stone, then he gets revenge out of grudges, and hate red is all what he has in that heart of his,,,
Such people are called M O T H E R F U C K E R S....
2007-03-26 10:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they THINK they gain some sort of satisfaction, but they really dont...
some people just enjoy wrecking other peoples lives because their own life is so bad.....they just cant stand to see other people happy!
esp. if the couple is married, and a "single" wants one of them......they do NOT care if they are married...they are selfish....
i feel sorry for them cause they will NEVER HAVE LOVE OR HAPPINESS......
and will burn in hell!
2007-03-18 11:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by STARZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the satisfaction of having been destructive. They may be acting out of jealousy or thinking this is an obstacle to their happiiness.
2007-03-24 02:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sick gratification. Motivated by the demons within oneself. Meant to destroy you if your weak minded. Greed, Jealousy and Envy. Dont empower them, analyze your reactions before you make them.
2007-03-26 10:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by ISA7818 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They gain another person to join them in misery. Some how this makes them feel better about themselves.
2007-03-18 10:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do not know exactly to what you are referring... how did someone turn your life upside down?
if someone tries to interfere with your life, perhaps they get a kick out of chaos and drama?
some people can't live without a crisis.
2007-03-18 10:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you mean when others interfere in your life as a couple?
I think people just like to interfere and control others ... especially if you are talking about in-laws.
Its hard for me to help you with more advise because you are not very specific with your question!
good luck!
2007-03-25 12:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋