I hv a frnd who didnt care for me as much as I cared for her. She knows I love talking to her but she always showed me like she is busy and its hard for her to talk to me but still she used to talk and it made me feel like a burden on her.
I was always there in her time of need but I rarely found her when I needed her.
I was hurt by all this so 1 day I told her that its not necessary to talk daily and she agreed after that I stopped texting her suddenly.
Till now she didnt ask me, y? She knows something is wrong but she didnt ask me what? Today she told me that I can text her at anytime and its not a prob for her to talk to me.
There was a time when she used to find difficult talking to me and nw she asked me to msg her whenevr I want to.
What do u think is she bothered by my avoiding attitude? Does she started missing me? Idont want to lose her. I feel bad ignoring her. Do u think she got it that i have some prob by her. How can I hint her that I am hurt by her. plz plz help.
2007-03-18 10:34:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ History
god not this AGAIN
can't you just make some new friends? your obsession with this girl is completely unhealthy, you ask about her constantly.
she obviously doesnt make you happy so just cut her off.
2007-03-18 10:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by G*I*M*P 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter, rehearse a conversation with yourself or a friend then have roughly same conversation with her one to one, or get a friend to tell her although telling her by yourself is better, it is better the sooner you tell her as the more hurt you will feel the longer you leave it and the longer you leave it it affects her too in a negative way. try to not forget the past but think about the present and future too and less of the past. And don't ignore her because you are kind of doing the same thing that she was doing and it will have a bad effect basically just talk to her, maybe try talking about something relaxing and not pressuring or tense before diving into the hurt bit, don't leave her in the dark, think about how you would feel if you was her. email me for more advice or if you want to talk it over.
2007-03-18 10:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by Amore vole fe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want some good advice about this you should
a) Put your question in the right category
b) Read through the way you have worded your explanation and then rewrite it in a clear way so that people can actually understand the situation - I can't make any sense of it whatsoever because it is written in such a jumbled way.
Maybe that is your state of mind right now and I really don't mean to patronise you on your grammar and English language skills, but no one is going to be able to help you if they can't understand what the problem is.
2007-03-18 11:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Hotpink555 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
even tho you might upset her you have to tell her straight.
if she is a true mate she will understand even if she is hurt at first.
either that or totally break away from her.
i have had a friend like that.
it was all "me,me,me" with her and she didnt want to know about my feelings.
i told her how i felt which was hard to do. she was hurt and said she would but she didnt change so i have nothing more to do with her anymore.
2007-03-18 10:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're far too young to have a girlfriend. Go back to school and concentrate on your studies. You may grow up to be a big boy one day if you eat your greens and stop moaning.
2007-03-18 11:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by michael w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously so confused as to put this in the History section instead of the lonely saps section or whatever it is that this should be in.
For God's sake talk to her about how you feel then you'll know one way or other for sure.
2007-03-18 10:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by the_lipsiot 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is giving you subtle hints....she doesn't want to have a close friendship with you.
Try to start looking elsewhere for new friends unless you like to be beatup and turned off by someone who doesn't want to be involved.
2007-03-18 11:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be honest with her and tell her how you feel about the situation,and see if you can find some common ground. if your friend finds it difficult to be there for you in your hour of need then you need a different friend
2007-03-18 10:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by magiclady2007 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is this question in the "history" section?? Totally inappropriate to be placed here. Find the correct place for it and put it there.
Chow!!
2007-03-18 10:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I find honesty the best policy, try talking to her about your feelings. if she doesn't feel the same then i suggest you find another person to confide in as she obviously makes you unhappy.
2007-03-18 10:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this doing in the History category? It belongs in the relationship section with all the other sobbers.
2007-03-18 10:40:19 · answer #11 · answered by Sophist 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋