I hv a frnd who didnt care for me as much as I cared for her. She knows I love talking to her but she always showed me like she is busy and its hard for her to talk to me but still she used to talk and it made me feel like a burden on her.
I was always there in her time of need but I rarely found her when I needed her.
I was hurt by all this so 1 day I told her that its not necessary to talk daily and she agreed after that I stopped texting her suddenly.
Till now she didnt ask me, y? She knows something is wrong but she didnt ask me what? Today she told me that I can text her at anytime and its not a prob for her to talk to me.
There was a time when she used to find difficult talking to me and nw she asked me to msg her whenevr I want to.
What do u think is she bothered by my avoiding attitude? Does she started missing me? Idont want to lose her. I feel bad ignoring her. Do u think she got it that i have some prob by her. How can I hint her that I am hurt by her. plz plz help.
2007-03-18 10:26:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
I think she understands how you feel and if it's really important to you to tell her how you're feeling, then say something like: "I know sometimes I can be a bit of a burden to you, but if I'm too much, then please tell me"
Good luck and remember that many times we give more than what we receive.
2007-03-18 10:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by damari_8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, seems if you have misunderstandings about each other, go to her or text her saying (as previously mentioned) that you don't want to bother her and make her feel as if your a burden, say you want to be friends still, then start normally, like ask how r u? etc etc... then organise an outing, go out and have fun, when she realises that you are a person that she can have fun with then she'l probably change her attitude towards you,but to her at the moment it may seem that you are a kind friend but you are forcefully wanting her to talk to you.
Show her that she needs your friendship, make her laugh, be with her (and don't expect anything back yet), have fun with her, help her about, then talk to her normally, then keep on talking like close mates.. and hopefully her attitude will change towards you.. and you may be the best of mates or more..
anyway good luck...
2007-03-18 10:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Vinz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel like I am generally in the same boat . I have had a bad life and feel that I am boring and in too much need of attention from one person.One key is to realize the need for learning how to make friends with many people and be able to live around them and know that you can help each other for a long time.So that when you do get hitched with someone it'll be a habit that they can't break and you may not ever be boring. I never have been able to do that. I feel that my life can seem exciting to someone for a while and then they grow out of me, and move on to the next person.People tend to change over a period of time.
2007-03-18 12:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by Yvonne B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should txt her and let her know you don't want to bother her, but she can txt you any time she wants also. Then wait and see if she txts you. If she does, that's a good sign. If not then just txt her once in a while to ask how she's doing, etc. Don't txt her all the time as you will become bothersome to her, unless she starts to txt you all the time then you can...
Hope that helps.
2007-03-18 10:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by capnemo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, there was this one girl that I got her e-mail from and we started e-mailing each other everyday.(i really liked her). Then after a few months, she just stopped e-mailing me. I was scared cuz i thought she found out that i liked her. Later on, she kept ignoring me and I felt really bad. Then after a few weeks, she started talking to me again. I figured what made her start talking to me again was that everytime i was around her I was silent and I acted as if i hated her. Later on she asked what was wrong and yeah...
2007-03-18 10:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by KG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by the tone of your question id say you are indian. so then you should read Bhagavad Gita, the priceless jewel of your country that every indian thinks they already know but have never read.
2007-03-19 11:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Humble Bee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this should be on family and relations not on art and humanities site .yahoo answers
2007-03-18 10:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
try to give your friend a fresh start. she is trying to hint to you that she is sorry, i think.
2007-03-18 10:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mystic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it was paul
2007-03-18 10:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by star ray 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋