what was the one event or time in ur life to this date, that completely crushed you, made you feel helpless, depressed, angry, confused, unsure of yourself, useless, and/or you didnt know what to do or if you were going to survive it?
please, i need some reassurance that im going to get thro this and that im better off than it feels...
2007-03-18 10:26:14 · 9 answers · asked by Lexa♥ 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I woke up one morning and my roomate in college was dead in his bed. We had no idea he was in to heroin. It really confused all of us. Especially me, we had just gotten to be really good friends. He had always been an aquaintance, but he had become more like family over the course of time we'd lived together. I'm still not over it and its been 4 years.
2007-03-18 10:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by Hans B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had some family members who have died but honestly none of that affected me too greatly. The worst thing that nearly happened to me was about 2 years ago, we found out my dad had a brain tumor. He HAD TO have it removed, and there was a chance he could go blind after the surgery or even die.
Thank goodness he's fine. I would be a totally different person today had he died.
The worst 2 things that have happened to me are this: 3 years ago my best friend moved 700 miles away. My social life has never been the same since then--i.e., it sucks incredibly. I miss her so much.
And one of my friends died in a car accident. I can't imagine the pain his family feels, but in a way it's changed me for the better. I now know that life is fragile; no one is invincible; and I would absolutely never get in a car with a drunk driver, as he did.
You just have to take life as it's thrown at you. If you try hard enough, you can find something positive in anything or anyone.
2007-03-18 17:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by midnitesky00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of my break ups have had a tremendous blow on my ego and I have fallen into deep depression over them. Although it has turned out for the better now, as I know it wasn't meant to be and I learned something about life from it, or actually them, (plural) as it has happened quite a few times in my life. The saying "Time is the healer" is very true. The hardest part about it is the hurt one is going through. This has been so bad for me in the past, that I have been "single" sometimes for a few years! I'm sorry I can't help you directly for the hurt you must be going through. I would say find a counselor that you can trust and talk to them, every week, and that will help immensely. I hope I have helped out today.
2007-03-18 17:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by chazzer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My ex bf told me countlessly he wanted to commit suicide, I told him he needed professional help, but he only wanted mine. We feel deeply in love with each other. I cared for him alot and from his actions and words, I thought he genuinly felt the same. 2yrs we were together and move in together in NYC. A year into our relationship he told me had a child w/a one night stand beofre we met and he was ashamed. Well, I helped him come to terms with it and he met his daughter and began to develop feelings for the mother aka..one night stand. He left me to be with her and was very cold to me. I couldnt handle it, I cried alot, and you know what he said to me.."if you can't handle it, get help from a pychologist"!! Nice huh? After all Idid for him. Those were his final words to me. Its been months and we do not speak. I feel better, but it still hurts sometimes. What can I do. I am leaving it in God's hands. To know that someone I deeply loved can treat me in such a way. Also, they are not together anymore. I heard he found out her true colors. I hope everything he did was worth it to him. But to answer your question. I was feel I was mentally abused because of all the suicide talk he layed on me. It has taken months of therapy and soul searching and TIME to heal. I dont know if I will completelt get over it, but it does get better. I promise:)
Best Wishes
2007-03-18 17:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I found out that someone I thought was a close friend of mine slept with my ex boyfriend about a week after she and I shared a heart to heart about who our true loves were,etc....YES,people will be evil...
2007-03-18 18:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting divorced years ago. I felt lost and hopeless. Someone told me, this too shall pass. Well, it did and now life is good. Keep your chin up and a positive attitude.
2007-03-18 18:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
always having been picked last in gym class, one day i ended up not even being picked. i was crushed... i had a breakdown... almost got out my pap's 357, but i was too much of a puss to do it. lucky im still here, as screwed up as i am...
2007-03-18 17:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by dr.macgruder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when my grandparents died. the 2 worst times in my life.
it was and still is the worst hell to go through. it's been very hard and the pain never goes away.
2007-03-18 17:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
duringa fight with my some one, i thought of leaving the city and justrun away, i felt soo depressed, but now i look behind mee and feel kinda selly
2007-03-18 17:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by rima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋