I keep on having feelings for not only girls but guys too. I want to stop this temptation/lust or (what you might call it) feeling but I can't help it.
2007-03-18 10:18:15 · 14 answers · asked by Soa's Fate~ 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Be careful, if you want to try and fight your sexuality, then that's your choice; but sometimes doing something like that can mess with a person's head. Hope you either accept yourself as being bi or you find a way to go straight. Either way, don't forget to try and be happy.
2007-03-18 10:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by ∞.DS.∞ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, Dearest, I have no idea how old you actually are. If you are a young teen (14 and under) you're still developing and need to give yourself some time. You;'re still experiencing puberty and such feelings are normal. You can't expect to be a man overnight. If you're over 14 then you might be bisexual. This isn't necessarily a horrid thing. Most humans are, just not all of them act on their feelings. I agree with Rachel. Be yourself. One of the best things you can actually do is develop a strong charecter (although please develop a good and kind strong charecter) that can see you through the years of High School. A man with a good charecter is worth a dozen with poor ones and one more peice of advice. Always be the freind you'd want to have. Good luck.
2007-03-18 17:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to become straight would probably be some major brain surgery/brain transplant/some other weird sci-fi stuff that isn't around yet and would probably be fatal about 99.99999999% of the time. So, basically you're stuck being bi. May as well get used to it and accept that part of yourself.
2007-03-19 02:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't mean to discourage you, but you can't always stop your true feelings. Some people are born this way, and if you feel like its a sin because you are a very strong christian or something, you might want to talk to your youth leader if you are a kid, or church leader if you are an adult. Some young people are just confused sometimes and it takes time to realize what they really want, but if you are sure about your feelings, stay true to yourself.
2007-03-18 17:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by KJK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your aren't 100% now you never will be. You are Bisexual.
You can always concentrate your temptation/lust for the opposite sex but there will always be that "feeling" lurking n the background.
2007-03-18 17:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Keep making love to girls, that will make you 100% straight.
2007-03-18 17:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to become 100% straight??
2007-03-19 14:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't change yourself because eeryone is awesome no matter who they are and if people don't accept you then they can go watch teletubbies cause i bet you're a good person.
2007-03-18 17:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by ♫ Kat ♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dude. If you don't want to mess with guys, don't. It might be hard or actually impossible, but you could stay celibate and abstain from sex with dudes. Good luck if that's what you want to do.
2007-03-18 17:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to be 100% straight be true to yuorself if people dont like that **** them
2007-03-18 17:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by Leprachaun 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋