When I met my partner, she and I were both in a relationship with someone else. In spite of that fact we fell in love and both of us left our unhappy situations to be with one another. I moved 500 miles from home to be with her. With in the first month that we were together she had sex with her ex. I had not moved yet and she and her ex were going to try and remain friends as they had been together for a very long time. She told me about it approx. a week and a half later, said that she felt horrible, that she could no longer keep it from me. Said it was done out of anger, at the ex (long story) and uncertainty about me and whether or not I would actually move to be with her. I love her more than I have ever loved any one and did move, leaving my entire life behind to be with her. I can't help feeling this anxiety and nervousness though, some part of me keeps wondering if it will happen again. She is no longer friends with her ex, so that doesn't worry me. I just wonder...
2007-03-18
10:15:38
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if it will ahppen period. Am I right to feel this way, or should I just give it up and be more trusting. I know that trust is vital to a relationship, so I am feeling bad for not trusting her completely. Your thoughts please.
2007-03-18
10:17:16 ·
update #1
I've already moved, and been here for a while. She never see's the ex-hasn't in 6 mo and the only time we are not together is when she is at work. Thats why I am kinda feeling bad about the distrust.
2007-03-18
10:26:06 ·
update #2