I hv a frnd who didnt care for me as much as I cared for her. She knows I love talking to her but she always showed me like she is busy and its hard for her to talk to me but still she used to talk and it made me feel like a burden on her.
I was always there in her time of need but I rarely found her when I needed her.
I was hurt by all this so 1 day I told her that its not necessary to talk daily and she agreed after that I stopped texting her suddenly.
Till now she didnt ask me, y? She knows something is wrong but she didnt ask me what? Today she told me that I can text her at anytime and its not a prob for her to talk to me.
There was a time when she used to find difficult talking to me and nw she asked me to msg her whenevr I want to.
What do u think is she bothered by my avoiding attitude? Does she started missing me? Idont want to lose her. I feel bad ignoring her. Do u think she got it that i have some prob by her. How can I hint her that I am hurt by her. plz plz help.
2007-03-18 10:13:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
it seems like you are doing the right thing... she didn't realize how important you were to her untill you backed off a little bit... I would just continue to do what you are doing... don't ignore her though... just talk to her every once in a while... wait for her to text or talk to you then talk or text back.... she is comming around....... don't hint to her that you were hurt just let it go... if she starts being a good friend to you just allow that to happen and don't dwell on the past
2007-03-18 10:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by stephaniedayton2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe this girl wants to be your friend but not your girlfriend. When you were trying hard to get closer to you she felt the need to keep some distance between you. But she probably values you as a friend and misses chatting to you sometimes.
My son had a girl friend who he fancied He asked her out but she said no, becauseboyfriends are 2 a penny but friends are rare and she didnt want to spoil their friendship.
Years later they are both happily married to different people.
2007-03-18 10:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by bri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask her all these questions? She knows better all the whys than any of us do. Text her if you wish, but don't expect her confession of love if I were you. She doesn't seem to know how she feels about you at all.
2007-03-22 04:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋