My ex was suicidal and I helped him thru so much. We were together for 2 yrs. We never fought, and I stood by him and gave him the best advise poosible. Mind you, I told him to get prof help,but he only wanted mine, so I did. Well, for reasons he decided to end our relationship, but I found out that he lied about many things, probably because he was ashamed. Well, I tried countless times to confront him and he got at me and sent me an email and told me that if I can't handle it to get help from a pychologist. All I do is cry becauseI can't cope knowing he was so "suicidal", made me feel sorry for him and I actually believed him, for him to say that to me. I was there for him and the one time I want toi comfront him or needed him, this is what he says to me. Can someone help me explain from a pychological point of view why he is this way. He comes from a good family, was he ashamed?I feel he messed with my head & I think about it alot. I never thought he could do or say these things.
2007-03-18 10:10:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He doen't deserve you. He's a loser, so let him go. This might not sound very professional, but it's true. The source? Experience. Been there, done that. Believe me, one day you'll look back on this whole event and wonder why you even wasted your time. You don't need a psychologist, you just need to believe in yourself and find the inner strength to close this chapter of your life and keep moving forward. Best wishes to you, precious.
Sincerely,
Journey
2007-03-18 10:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
"I stood by him and gave him the best advise poosible. Mind you, I told him to get prof help,but he only wanted mine, so I did."
This doesn't make a lot of sense. If you gave him the best advice possible, then you have knowledge of all advice and which is the best. To then ask strangers for advice . . . well it is inconsistent with your previous claim.
You could use some psychological help, if you believe in the value of such things. Seek it. Maybe you could find out why you even care that a suicidal person is now acting like a jerk.
I'm a philosopher. My general advice is to examine your life -- as the unexamined life is not worth living.
2007-03-18 17:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by Djibouti, Djibouti 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it needs a professional opinion,
2007-03-18 17:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by rima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋