Am I gay if I'm still a virgin. I mean I'm 19 years old male and still haven't gotten rid of it. Think about it, it's kinda gay. Anyway i never got lucky with the ladies, and also i'm very shy.
2007-03-18 09:59:46 · 9 answers · asked by Kein 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I'll take it from you if you like :]
No but really you're still young don't worry so much about it, you'll lose it soon and you'll be happy you waited until you're older so you could remember it.
2007-03-18 10:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, isn't that a bit like asking "Do I like mint chocolate chip if I've never tried ice cream"? There's no point in worrying about your sexual preference until you've actually had sex. Even then it actually isn't worth worrying about! If it turns out you prefer other guys, no big deal, just make sure to protect yourself and your partner and use a condom. (Obviously you use a condom with a woman too...) Let's face it, sex is just sex: there's nothing mystical or important about it, it doesn't make you a grown-up or a "real man" if you've had it, and it certainly doesn't make you gay if you haven't. Last time I checked, you only got to call yourself gay if you were exclusively attracted to other men. All this is just to say don't rush into it, whether your first sexual experience is with a woman or a man. The most important thing is that it should be with someone you care about, and if it happens to take a while before you meet that person, then you get the satisfaction of knowing you haven't just been wasting your time with popsicles before you discovered Ben & Jerry's!
2007-03-18 10:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by professor_spice 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. My husband was a virgin when we met, we lost it to each other on our wedding night at the age of 20. He is far from gay.
2007-03-18 10:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by marcelswifeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, it won't go anywhere. You shouldn't use your body recreationally, it means the most when you find someone who really deserves it, and will share it with you for life. Just get the gay thought out your head.
2007-03-18 10:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by mac man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a cousin in her thirties, not fat, not ugly in the least and she is still a virgin. There is nothing wrong with her at all... I think its cute that there are guys that haven't... um..done that.
2007-03-18 10:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by Annabella Stephens 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just because your still a virgin doesn't mean your gay. you're probably just not ready to have sex yet, rather your gay or straight
2007-03-18 15:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin it just means you don't have std's.
2007-03-18 14:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by godsnoriel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesn't mean your gay- it just means you aren't easy - there is nothing wrong with that.... when the time comes, the time will come. trust me, sex with someone just to have sex is pretty lame as you sound like someone who's not just out to "get off". relax.... it's normal!
2007-03-18 10:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by Marysia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your question is stupid. i wasn't told about the rule that states you must have sex before the age of 19. idiot
2007-03-18 11:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by Raven's Shadow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋