I hv a frnd who didnt care for me as much as I cared for her. She knows I love talking to her but she always showed me like she is busy and its hard for her to talk to me but still she used to talk and it made me feel like a burden on her.
I was always there in her time of need but I rarely found her when I needed her.
I was hurt by all this so 1 day I told her that its not necessary to talk daily and she agreed after that I stopped texting her suddenly.
Till now she didnt ask me, y? She knows something is wrong but she didnt ask me what? Today she told me that I can text her at anytime and its not a prob for her to talk to me.
There was a time when she used to find difficult talking to me and nw she asked me to msg her whenevr I want to.
What do u think is she bothered by my avoiding attitude? Does she started missing me? Idont want to lose her. I feel bad ignoring her. Do u think she got it that i have some prob by her. How can I hint her that I am hurt by her. plz plz help
2007-03-18 09:44:34 · 13 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She probably knows that she has upset you in some way and is feeling bad about it. The reason why she hasn't asked you if there is something wrong is because she already knows that she hasn't treated you as well as you have treated her in the past. You say that you have been there for her, but she hasn't been there for you. I think that have made her feel guilty. Why don't you just say that you enjoy talking to her and that you have missed your little chats. Tell her that she can also text you whenever she wants to and leave it at that. Hope things work out for you.
2007-03-18 09:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd start talking to her again. Tell her that the reason you started ignoring her is because she was never there for you when you had problem, but you were always there for her. If she gets mad at you saying that, then she isn't going to change her ways and you're better off without her as a friend. But she might not have realized that you felt isolated by her. So being direct is better than hinting at the issue.
2007-03-18 09:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Risika Desaunt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 08:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by adkisson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With people like her you can't just hint. She either doesn't get it or doesn't want to get it. You need to spell it out. Say something like: "Look, I am always there for you but you are never there for me. I feel like I am burdening you when I tell you my problems. That's why I haven't contacted you lately." Then see what she says. She doesn't sound like much of a friend.
2007-03-18 09:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once u realize u dont have something anymore u miss it and wish maybe u had done something different and treated it better, i think u should tell her how u feel then u will feel better and feel like a load of ur mind
2007-03-18 09:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by boogybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't be too pushy. When you confront her be cool about it.... just say something like "I'm sorry if it seemed like I was calling or needing your too much". Then see what she says, you both will have a better relationship if it is an open discussion one.
2007-03-18 09:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't talk to her then what are going to achieve? nothing so talk to her have some balls and do it.
You have already asked this question and I've answered it already, so sorry for being blunt, but look how many people are telling you to just talk to her!!!!!!!!
2007-03-18 09:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats happening on here tonight- keep getting the same questions within minutes of each other.
2007-03-18 09:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her you will not gain anything by ignoring her. I also think you seriously need to make some more friends.
2007-03-20 10:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by Big wullie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to grow up theres bigger fish to fry and yes I would just talk to her instead of blatantly ignoring her sometimes people dont know what they have until its gone so she misses you and you were probably a joy so please continue to talk to her and tell her the truth on your feelings
2007-03-18 09:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by Diva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋