One of my ex-friends was a very good friend to me.Then when I moved to another state another one of my friends told me that she had went around talking about me.When I called her to confront hewr she denied ever having said anything.
2007-03-18 09:41:04 · 15 answers · asked by Chatterbox 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, one of your friends are lying. Go and make a surprise visit to your old school, and maybe someone will help you. Dont go blameing someone about something that may not even be true
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-18 09:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem that a lot of people have and it is present in almost in all agae groups believe it or not. The fact of the matter is, you can not really know for sure if your "friend" said them or not. People change for the silliest of reasons. Cherish the time that she actually was a good friend and try to forgive her for this loss of maturity. Maybe one day she will grow up and see what she has lost. Also never harbor ill feelings for a former friend (not that you are) Because it only hurts and consumes yourself. Sorry but this is a sad fact of life that does not go away.
2007-03-18 16:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by princessstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. She pretended to be your friend and then you found out she was not. You have a lot to learn as you get older. Just live and learn and keep going. You will meet some good, some bad and some ugly friends, but most of all know that the good ones are worth their weight in gold!
2007-03-18 16:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be either one of these 2 things.1.)your friends are lieing and trying to stirr up trouble.2.) The friend that you called to see if she was talking about you is lieing and will not come out and be honest.I know this happen to me before one of my so called friends was talking about me,when I confront her she denyed it. later I found out she was in fact talking about me.The ones who do stuff like that are not true friends their called backstabbers.
2007-03-18 17:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by TrueWoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some friends are insecure and the only way they can get their jollys is by talking behind someone back when they aren't their to defend themselves. Ain't you glad she ain't a friend anymore
2007-03-18 16:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are called losers... or liars... what ever why you classify them, they arent worth your time.
i had a friend like that. i pretty much just cut off my ties with her. i couldnt stand the relationship anymore. you should do that same. dont worry about what she said about you... if she said it to people who were truly your friends they wont believe her.
another thing you may want to take into consideration is if your friend who told you about that other girl talking about you is being honest with you... what if that particular girl is trying to cause drama herself... trust your gut... think about who has hurt you before and who you trust more... but if you have moved out of state... just dont worry about it... go out and make new friends...
2007-03-18 16:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my experience tells me that people dog you and talk about you behind your back out of purre jelousy. there is something in your life that they would like to have or be like , so they feel like dogging you will make you look bad and them look good.take a page from my book. i always say if they are talking about me at least they are leaving some one else alone. lol
2007-03-18 16:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by shelly l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they wanna fit in and be cool with everyone else if they're dissin u then that person will start dissin u just to fit in cuz if they stick up for u then they'll be made fun of too and they don't wanna be made fun of. that's how 2 faced friends act.
2007-03-18 16:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by A guy who cant fall outta love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats life
2007-03-18 16:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a drag sometimes eh? a true friend would not do that ... cool you are in another state now and don't have to deal with her...find some new friends where you live now and don't worry about her
be cool...
2007-03-18 16:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋