Not all men watch porn...some find it degrading to women,that is a feeling I believe comes from within a person you cant earn a degree in it.I once heard its everywhere,everyone does it....meaning porn.Yes its world wide billion dollar companies some financed by world governments,so money talks.The need for outside stimulation,whether visual or participating in it,is the worlds oldest occupation.I personnally dont understand why a significant other would want to use that in a intimate environment.Watching one woman with six penis`s around her turns me freakin off.But at the same time we all must compromise with our significant other.Getting back to the statement evryone does it...man It just hurts my mind to think that porn is even needed.I wish Ihad the time to prove to you actual studies of the porn industry of the destruction of many lives.So do they get tired of it...nope becuase the ones whom dont find it exciting are the minority of society(sick world)and there is no cure.If the energy and money that went into porn were to go into oh lets say United States Military Vets maybe just maybe a soldier coming home would not have to live with the memories of an ugly war.And if people were to be able to be caring enough to form a lifetime relationship were to focus on the needs and wants of each other and not the needs and wants of what a director commands,maybe they would be able to reach a level of euphoria great enough that the divorce rate would be cut dramatically.
2007-03-18 10:35:17
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answered by ? 2
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All I know is that I'm a woman, and I absolutely enjoy porn on a regular, frequent basis. You'd think that there would be a point where it was "enough", but whenever the erotic need strikes- which is often for both sexes, and even moreso for men- porn is a nice way to handle it. Plus, there's always that allure for more . . . I know that I constantly am looking for the "best" or "better" porn- watching one makes you later want to see another, so somehow exhaust the canon to make sure you're not missing out on something even greater.
Yes, I sometimes get seeing porn. I get a little burned out on it, and I take a break- usually go for some nice written erotica instead to recharge. I think men usually do, too, just not as often, or they bounce back pretty quickly.
Hope that helps.
2007-03-21 05:31:02
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answered by Anonymous
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I have watched some porn, but I'm not that crazy about it. I know a good amount of my friends who watch some porn, but don't really watch it that much. It's just a release and fantasy for guys to see, and enjoy just watching sex. I actually do get tired of porn. I have watched some, but I can only watch so much before it seems to become redundant. Yeah, the women are different, but the positions, scenario, and everything are the same except the person and place. It kinda sounds goofy, but I like to see variety. The porn women have great bodies and a different, but they look like they all came out of the same mold or machine, since their bodily shapes seem similar like they all look the protypical 36-24-36 playboy mold. I like to see variety, and that is why I actually like movie sex scenes more than porn most of the times, and another reason is because I don't want to see "money shots" and all that stuff, which porn seems to do for whatever reason. I guess soft porn, and or movie sex scenes, even if the sex is simulated.
2007-03-18 17:57:12
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answered by Brennan Huff 5
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I'm a straight guy, don't watch porn, and have never had an interest in it. It's like the difference between going out and playing golf and watching it on TV--the former is fun, the latter is exceedingly boring. The same thing is true with sex; I'd rather be doing it, than watching others do it which is really boring.
A comedian (it might have been Carlos Mencia) pointed out that when you're watching porn, it usually involves a man and a woman, so isn't watching another man have sex gay? I had never thought about it that way before, but he's got a point.
2007-03-18 19:24:48
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answered by JD 2
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First, let's refer to it as erotica. Porn is just a pejorative term, and what I would call the "cheaply made stuff."
Erotica has been around for thousands of years. It began as painting, sculpture and poetry, and eventually evolved into literature, photography, acting, and video.
Erotica is simply an alternative form of sexual arousal; it is harmless fantasy and nothing more.
Regarding fantasy, Helen Fisher ("The First Sex," Ballantine Books, Feb. 2000) says that 71 percent of men and 72 percent of women fantasize while having sex with a partner. Men fantasize about conquest and domination, women about submission and surrender.
Dr. Joyce Brothers says, "It might relieve some of your guilt to know that many happily married individuals who have no thought or intention of ever betraying their spouse have sexual fantasies about someone other than their spouse."
Both men and women (single and in a relationship) have shown a desire to enjoy erotica in some form.
Women should take note that there is a very successful series of erotic anthologies called "Herotica." The stories are all written by female authors - not male!
As long as partners are satisfying each other and not neglecting each other, their relationship is not at risk by indulgence into erotica or fantasy.
2007-03-20 08:02:05
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answered by Anonymous
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For guys it's a little different, because we're just more visually stimulated.
It's more complicated than that, but that's about the essence of it. I think it's due to years of evolution. Way back when, thousands of years ago, men and women started to look for different cues in each other as a way of best propogating the species. Men would look for women who would physically be the most able to bear children, and that would depend on looks/body shape. Women, who were the primary caregivers of the children, would look for other, not necessarily physical qualities (the strongest, healthiest seed) in the men who father the children.
And that's where the differences started, and years later, porn, the great male visual stimulus, was invented.
2007-03-19 00:28:22
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answered by koreaguy12 6
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Watching porn is a kind of sexual outlet. And the reason why men don't get tired of watching porn is the same reason why they don't get tired of having sex.
Sex is one of those needs that needs to be satisfied regularly and periodically.
2007-03-22 01:56:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Men watch porn for two major reasons.
First, the male brain is preprogrammed to react to visual stimuli of certain types by getting sexually aroused. This can be generally inhibited through religious programming or guilt against normal sexual response. Sexual imagery generally causes or triggers a pleasurable response.
Second, "new" sexual stimuli tend to be more intensive than the same stimuli repeated. Porn, assuming it is new stuff each time, maintains it buzz longer than just repetitive review. However, their can be a drop in interest if other avenues of sexual stimulation are open and not "burned out" by repetition yet.
So...
Rules of Thumb:
Sex imagery without guilt attached is stimulating.
New porn trumps old porn.
New porn trumps burned out sex.
New sex trumps porn.
New sex trumps old sex.
Generic sex trumps New porn (usually).
2007-03-19 01:25:14
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answered by Deathbunny 5
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Depends on the guy and depends on the porn. Someone that I know ONLY watches ONE act. Other people don't like porn at all, and others watch multiple variants of it. One probably gets tired of seeing the same thing over and over; that's why one varies his (or her; girls watch porn too) material.
I personally don't get tired of it, although I do regard it as pretty silly when I'm "done."
2007-03-18 20:31:18
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answered by Robinson0120 4
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In their teens maybe but most guys prefer sex to watching porn. So dont worry ^.^
2007-03-18 18:40:22
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answered by Anonymous
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