I mastrubate about every day or every other day in the shower with my shower head. i orgasm at least five times every time a mastrubate. afterwards my vagina feels a little numb. i have tried using my fingers but it just makes my vagina dry and uncomfotable. sometimes it hurts a little after a mastrubate. i am a virgin. is anything im doing wrong/unhealthy, etc.?
i am a tenn girl and i have been doing this for about 6 months now
2007-03-18 09:32:09 · 12 answers · asked by sexyhot_dancer 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
the dryness is only after i try to use my fingers, but i never orgasm that way.
also, is using too much pressure with the shower head bad?
2007-03-18 09:41:46 · update #1
There is nothing wrong with mastubating every day. The numbness may just be due to the high amount of stimulation. The nerves have fired a great deal, and after awhile thigns can get temporarily desensitived. Also, the muscles the contract during an orgams may be fatigued.
When skin rubs agains skin it can cause friction, when can be uncomfortable. If you are having trouble with dryness try a water based lubricant. Astroglide is a good one, and you can get it in most grocery or drug stores. You can also get lubricants through the mail, that come in plain packaging, if you feel uncomfortable purchasing this at the store. http://www.bettersex.com is a good site.
The only thing I would say in terms of things you might want to think about, is that if you masturbate only one way, your body may get to a point where it is hard to orgasm any other way. So try to mix it up a bit. It is great to have a fool proof method, but it is also fun to experiment with new things.
It is great that you are learning about your body and what you enjoy. Masurbation is a great stress reliever and orgasm releases endorphins. It's woderful that you are exploring and embracing your sexulity.
Also, if and/or when you do decide to begin a sexual relationship with someone, you have a wealth of knowledge about what makes you feel good that you can share with your parter. However, NEVER feel like you need to get into a relationship before you are ready. As you have found out so far, there are many ways to enjoy your sexuality and physicality that do not require another person.
Have fun!
2007-03-18 09:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like most things, masturbation is good in moderation. If you are doing it everyday, you probably don't want to use a shower head all the time. The tap water has minerals (such as chlorine) in it that will dry you out and remove your natural lubrication. Also, the constant pressure might be causing you some discomfort afterwards as well. If you use your fingers, you want to go slowly and gently at first. If the direct stimulation is too intense, try stretching fabric (such as your panties) over your clit and then rubbing it through the fabric.
2007-03-18 18:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by Some girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mastrubation is natural and fine,its good that you orgasm every time,but shower head can give you an infection into you vagina.
You can get an artifical penis and can do the same. Hope you get the kicks.
2007-03-20 02:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by dom i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel numb because all the blood in your private area has left one area and rushed into another. The vaginal dryness is due to the water and water pressure. That's normal.
2007-03-18 16:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mastrubation, it a bad. for some time you feel good but after some time it kill your body feeling.
better find a sex partner.
use safety precations.
using finger is not a very good.
use can hurt your body.
2007-03-18 19:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by C B S 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Excess of anything is unhealthy.Masturbating itself is not unhealthy.try to concentrate on other important life issues too,and this age of urs to to precious to not b wasted.
2007-03-18 16:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by age_of_brains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to jackinworld.com and go to the women's section. use the internet there are plenty of sites that will give you techniques. as whether its good or bad... its up to you but you can give your self pleasure without having to lose your "virginity".
2007-03-18 16:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by patty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeild to temptation,but too much of anything is dangerous to everything
2007-03-19 12:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by panneerselvam s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh to be a shower head....
2007-03-18 16:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by conx-the-dots 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Anything done to excess is not good. Anyway, I think you should try dating guys they will more than glad to help you out! (And you both will have fun!)
2007-03-18 16:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋