should i judge my next companion on their astrological sun sign?

Question

i met a girl she's an aquarius and i'm a capricorn, supposibly we're not compatible and i tend to judge people more because of their sign, is this a bad thing? she seems cool n' stuff, but i'm afraid it might not work out cause' our signs indicate incompatibility, any adivce on this would be great.

Answer 1

you should judge someone on your feelings about them, trust your instinct


You are More than a Sun Sign
The relative positions of all the bodies in our Solar System to each other and their positions within the 12 Zodiac Signs, flavour your basic character that is initially set by the Ruling Planet.
An Astrologer draws your individual Birth Chart, by placing at the exact position in the Zodiac, at the time of your birth - the Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune & Pluto. Some Astrologers will also take into account a variety of Asteroids.

I can not overemphasize how this combination of influences, positions and inter-relationships, shift what a professional Astrologer considers not only for your Character at time of birth but how the chart of past, present & future moments influence your behaviour and reactions to circumstance, what the public think is predicting the future. This is in fact more like forecasting the weather but does have the advantage of totally predictable planetry positions.

Your 'Stars' or Sun Sign column as popular in magazines and web sites, use ONLY the Suns basic position in the Zodiac, it can be uncannily close at times but is only the first of many considerations when it comes to understanding you, your motives, how you react in different situations and of great importance to you - how the predictable positions of planets will influence your future. The interpretation of that comes down to the technical skills and intuitive abilities of the Astrologer

Answer 2

Maybe instead of judging people you should learn to understand them.

Aquarius With Capricorn:

The confidant Capricorn may prove to be too much for the nimble and elusive Aquarius. The hard-to-get approach drives Capricorn crazy, but in a strange way they love it! Aquarius could find Capricorn a little to serious at times, and Capricorn may conclude that Aquarius is a little too "free spirited". Capricorn is always looking for quality in romance and Aquarius may be lacking in that department. The relationship is best for a short-term romance and friendship will most likely be the end result. Capricorn does not like the interest that Aquarius shows to other people. Aquarius doe not like confinement or restriction at all, and may fly the coop to go out into the world to find something more suitable. These two make a very doubtful combination. There is a huge difference in values and personality here. The organized Capricorn and the never organized Aquarius will clash in this department. Too many other differences as well and unless you have other compatible aspects in your birth charts, don't expect a long lasting affair.

Love & Blessings
*^v^*Milly*^v^*

Answer 3

Unless you are looking at the actual birth angle degree between the two sun signs, there is at best only a 33% chance that you would feel any of the compatibility vibrations described by those generalized sun sign comparisons. That leaves a 66% or more chance that the compatibility vibration between the two sun signs is too weak to be of influence.
So, in short, do not judge by sun signs.

Answer 4

That's the ONLY route I'M taking from now on. It seems that all the people I've darted were wrong signs for me and each time I told myself it would work anyway and each time the relationship blew up in my face. Believe me, I tried to disregard that whole wrong sign thing..........................I really do think there's something to it. BUT make sure that your Chinese signs are also compatable. Not just your western zodiac signs.

Answer 5

Astrology is total bunk. There is no correlation between the date of your birth and anybody else's except the number of days in between. If she seems cool follow up and see what happens.

Answer 6

Astrology is not something that controls your life and it is not something that is only about Sun signs. Plus we have free will to change charastics in ourselves if we work at it.
base your feelings about people on the character you see them exhibit........don't judge them
Astrology should be used to explain someone behavior
or emotional reaction not define them.

Answer 7

No you're Compatible with your Girlfriend.

Answer 8

If I did that my girlfriend and I would not be dating and we will be dating for four years as of April seventh.

Answer 9

Use that as a factor in your final decision but don't let it be the deciding factor.

Answer 10

you shouldn´t be judging anyone at all....geez!!!!