we had sex yesterday with a condom and i noticed after we were finished that there was a hole on the side sort of not a big one and not a small one maybe the size of a lady bug or something but her period is coming up in like 10 days or so and i dont know if she could possibly be pregnant i heard that if it is a few days before the period then the egg will flush out with her cycle is this true or should i be worried?? also what is the likelyness of her being pregnant??
2007-03-18 09:17:16 · 17 answers · asked by josh214 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
also if her period is coming up is she has it then that means she is not pregnant right??
2007-03-18 09:36:24 · update #1
it is possible. I would wait and see if she misses her period. unless she wants to take a morning after pill, but that is up to her. good luck!
2007-03-18 09:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Blipp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call and get help from your local Planned Parenthood; call some local pharmacies and get Emergency Contraception NOW. It's a two-pill combination that will make sure the egg doesn't implant in her uterus if she is pregnant; it'll be too late to wait until she has her period or not.
That hole in the condom is enough to get her pregnant. You say her period is ten days from now? She is even quite likely to be ovulating right now, as women ovulate somewhere mid-cycle, so this is a pretty dangerous time to make a mistake with contraception.
There is no way that her egg will flush out of her system just becuse it's af ew days before the period. That is such a dangerous idea, and I can't believe that there are young guys out there that believe that! Make sure whoever told you that lie finds out the truth and spread some "truth" about this yourself before more people make mistakes and don't get immediate help because of a misconception like this.
For future reference, use Planned Parenthood to get reduced-cost birth control pills or the patch, it shouldn't cost more than a few packs of condoms, and it'll keep you safe in case your condom fails.
2007-03-18 09:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, but not likely. Technically she wouldn't even be pregnant yet, because it usually takes sperm about 12-24 hours to reach the egg and then fertilize it, if there is an egg even there.
If you are really worried have her take the morning after pill which planned parenthood gives out easily. The pill will make it so that she doesn't ovulate and make an egg or if the sperm has already reached the egg it prohibits the egg from actually implanting in the uterus. That stage doesn't even happen until quite a while after the sperm and egg meet. So its still possible to get the pill and have it be effective.
2007-03-18 09:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten days before her period is the fertile time, I'm afraid. Any size hole - like even a pinprick - is enough for sperm to get through. This doesn't mean she's pregnant, but there's definitely a decent chance.
If you're somewhere where you can get the morning-after pill, it might be a good idea if your beliefs allow. It doesn't cause an abortion, just causes the egg never to implant in the first place.
Best of luck to you both.
2007-03-18 09:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cracea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The size of a sperm to the size of a hole as big as a ladybug is like a mouse to the size of a house. My husband and I became pregnant while I was on birth control. Point is, if you have sex, you have a chance of getting pregnant. It is a risk and or benifit of having sex which is why having sex is such a big responsibility. Your girlfriend might very well be pregnant. It might be too soon to take a test but you can try. While I understand you were being careful by being protected, your only sure way of not being pregnant is to not have sex. Remind yourself that next time!
2007-03-18 09:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by schmidtee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, it is possible.
Within 72 hours you can use the Morning after pill. See your doctor right away. Let them know that is what you need when you call, being that time is critical.
Also, you might also want to remember that pregnancy is not the only thing that can slip through a broken condom. Now might be a good time to get checked for yours, and her sexual health. You should both have exams and testing to make sure that a baby isn't the only possible surprise. Just remember, a baby needs diapers for about 2 years, schooling for about 13 years and they might live with you for a total of 18 years, but Herpies is forever.
Best of luck to you.
2007-03-18 09:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Rocka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty big possibility of her being pregnant. 10 days before her period...she could still be fertile, although it's not the average time of ovulation (which would be 14 days before the period). It's probably slightly less than a 50-50 chance of her being pregnant. See if her period comes. If it doesn't, have her take a test.
2007-03-18 09:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by grayhare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is still very possible for your sperm to exit out that hole, but I would be more concerned if the hole were in the tip.
Honestly, anything is possible......but the odds are in your favor that she is not pg. Even if you ejaculated in her it doesn't guarantee a pregnancy even when everything is perfectly timed.
I know it will be a heck of a long 10 days. You need to both consider another form of birth control.
When I didn't want children, I was on the pill and he used condoms.
2007-03-18 09:57:11 · answer #8 · answered by kana121569 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you be worried...you bet! It is standard to go by the ovualtion time(you are probably in her ovualtion time)...but a girl can get pregnant anytime. We don't have the same bodies...And I'm not going into what exactly happens when a girl has a period...but you are way off. Maybe you should check online to see what happens to cause a period. Good Luck.
2007-03-18 09:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by Silver B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If any of your semen got into her, it lives quite a while, I think it's like 24 hours, or something, anyways, I would suggest just waiting for her period, she is the most furtile right before her period, I haven't been pregnant in like 8 years, but I think the make tests where you can tell early. Check into it.
2007-03-18 09:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by Melody F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its likely that she could be pregnant as its close to ovulation. If she doesnt want to be pregnant get the morning after pill which can be used up to 72 hours after sex. Also get checked for std
2007-03-18 09:22:08 · answer #11 · answered by micci c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋