My sons dad and I were never married but I resently made a big mistake and left my husband to be with him again, in thinking that he had really changed 10 years later. 3 weeks later after seeing that he wasn't any different I let him and decide that my husband of 8 years was a much better fit for me and we decided to get counceling and work things out and now I have an ex that is as usually causing problems what can I do to fix this part of our life?
2007-03-18 08:49:52 · 9 answers · asked by what to do? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess what you didn't know before you jumped to conclusions is that i left my husband because he was the one always cheating and I was getting fed up with it after vthe 6th time.
2007-03-18 08:58:44 · update #1
No matter what you do, please see someone for counseling and try to work out these issues. If you plan to make a go of it with your spouse, go to marriage counseling together. As for your ex, if he harrasses or stalks you, get a warrant. If he comes on your property, take out a no trespassing warrant. Call your local magistrate for information on what you can do in this regard or your local police station, or consult an attorney.
2007-03-18 09:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by curious74432 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look over your shoulder again when your husband give you your shoulder ? Now you want another person shoulder could you be faithful to the attorney or you swap again
( sigh). Count your lucky star if your husband is still with you.
Wisdom is a journey that no one can spare for you ....I think yourhusband heartache is more than your headaches.
2007-03-18 16:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Wisdom-of-life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, sounds to me like your getting what you deserve by playing games with these 2. I feel especially sorry for your husband and your son. Maybe you need to be on your own for awhile and grow up a little.
2007-03-18 16:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a referal for a good attorney from someone you feel may know one.
If you're in NJ, I can tell you there's an awesome one named Steve Sacharow. Based in Cherry Hill....but he won't do you any good if you're outside of NJ. (due to bar assoc. membership)
2007-03-18 15:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by bradxschuman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The second and third answer got my vote.Should have stayed where you were at and worked on the relationship instead of jumping for one man to the other.
2007-03-18 16:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the sad fact is that you have gone from one loser to another, then gone back to the first then back again! ditch both of these losers and find a good man that you can trust, good luck with that
2007-03-18 18:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by sue brew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean the part about you commiting adultery ? or the part where you are getting what you deserve?
2007-03-18 15:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you deserve what you get, the grass wasn't greener was it?
2007-03-18 15:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
FIX IT !! Good luck.
2007-03-18 15:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋