I've been married to my wife for quite some time now. There has been changes in both our lives, physically and mentally. For quite a few years she has been more like a sister to me than a wife. I've taken care of her because of physical conditions caused by doctors seeming not to care until it was too last. Myself, because of a injury to the head causing uncontrolable seizures had the left temperal lobe removed without success.
This surgery changed my personality quite a bit. Making me feel like a much younger person...beginning right after the surgery to "grow-up" from a child. I still feel quite young. I do not put this into the relationship of my marriage.
Before the surgery the relationship between my wife and I began changing. It just didn't seem to have the "In Love" emotions anymore. But rather the "Love with you" I guess you might say. That is from my side. She still has more feelings than that I'm sure. Her SSI will bring changes in our lives. Got any anwewrs for me?
2007-03-18 08:14:44 · 8 answers · asked by AlbeFree 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know what you're talking about, but you can't "dump" your wife for another woman...your wife needs you because she has no one else and you committed to her till death do you apart...be a man and stay with your wife
2007-03-18 08:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The last thing you need in your life right now, is another woman. Take care of the woman you promised to take care of in sickness & in health. Maybe in time, the feelings of love will grow deeper for both of you. The SSI will help but this is not about money. Stay with your wife & take care of her each & every day. Later in life, you will be able to look back & not have any feelings of guilt, like you would if you desserted your wife & went to the arms of another.
2007-03-18 12:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First what does her SSI have to do with the question? I'm sure you are not staying for the money are you? I don't know how old you are but it sounds like you are tired of the burden of taking care of her and want to move on. You question is a little confusing...If you are not in love with her anymore you need to have a talk with her and either come to some kind of mutual agreement and stay together or go your separate ways.
2007-03-18 08:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you consider leaving as an answer? Do not use her medical history as an excuse. A question for you. Why have you not discussed this with her yet? You are both under a lot of strain. Marriage counseling is in order.
2007-03-18 08:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what to say, but to tell you , work on yourself, and then your marriage.
to many thing are at play right now and you need to work each one of them out first before you make a clear and present train of thought.
Good Luck
2007-03-18 08:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a *** thinking about another women and ssi instead of your poor wife loser
2007-03-21 14:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you two need to see a therapist and talk things out!
2007-03-18 08:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by chastity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-03-18 08:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋