I am a healthy 19 year old married woman. I have been married for four months and it seems like I just can't get pregnant. My mother has two kids, me and my older brother. We are ten years apart. My mother got married when she was 18 and it took her ten years to get pregnant with my brother and then another ten years to get me. I hope that I am not like my mother because I really want a lot of children but I don't want to wait ten years for each of them.
2007-03-18 08:00:09 · 8 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
When the time is right it will happen if you stop thinking about it so much and relax it will happen sooner than you think.
2007-03-21 14:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by lovely 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are trying to concieve it typically seems to be harder, because that is the only thing that you are thinking about... especially every month when your AF arrives. There is probably nothing wrong with you but if you think you may have a problem concieving call the doctor and explain your situation (the history with your mother taking 10 years to concieve). If you are trying to concieve you should probably check with your doctor anyway just so that you body can be in excellent condition for having a baby. Good Luck!
2007-03-18 15:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Bre'Oona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try to relax and give it more time. I'd wait till at least 9 months of trying before giving in and getting checked by your doctor. It could be a variety of things medically,some of which I had stopping me(tilted uterus and endomitriosis) but your excitement and stress could also be causing you to not concieve. It also depends on how often you are trying. No sex...no baby, but on the other hand too much and you may not get pregnant either. Remember...it will happen when it happens. But dang it all...I know waiting is HARD!!
2007-03-19 18:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by TPAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 22 year old married woman and have been married for three years and have been trying for already more than six months and am asking the same question maybe we are stressing to much over it and should just relax, people tell me that stress causes us not to get pregnant I dont know, hey I'm going to the doctor tommorow to discuss with them about fertility wish me luck ok, good luck to you to!!!
2007-03-18 15:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by JENN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some peple just take longer than others hun. I took me and my fella 8 months and we were both starting to think about getting tests if it took longer than a year. Maybe you could think about that if it hasn't happened by then. But I bet it will! Just relax, have fun trying and enjoy being a married couple in the meantime. Eat healthy, get good of rest and exercise and it should happen. Good luck! x
2007-03-18 15:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by jellybean55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax....honestly. Up to a year is totally normal. Your anxiety about whether you'll get pregnant or not, as I'm sure you already know, may make it more tricky.
So try to relax....know that up to a year is fine and I'm sure things will work out just fine for you.
Best wishes
2007-03-18 15:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my husband have been ttc since our wedding night, 3 yrs ago. Weve been through testing, losing 3 babies, surgeries, clomid, provera and iuis and now onto ivf. I know that doesnt help u but at least u know that there r ppl out there worst then u.
2007-03-18 19:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal!
http://www.babycenter.com/refcap/preconception/gettingpregnant/1813.html
2007-03-18 15:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by fuschiapetitspois 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋