Ok, me and my friend tried out for Annie. Well, she is my best friend and we are really close. I know I suck at singing, and she told me she does too, so I was happy that both of us were really only good at acting so that there wouldn't be that wierd thing inbetween us. Well, at the audition, she refused to sing anything! She cried for 30 minutes infront of my teacher. Then she finally sang and then we left. My teacher is a major sucker for cryers. Well, in the next couple of days, my teacher put up the cast list and of course....it was bad! SHE GOT ANNIE! I don't understand this because she wont even sing infront of her best friend. Well, I got a sucky part, so I'm really mad. Well, school is about to start again (spring break), and it was awkward lat time. She can tell Im mad (everyone else is too!). Well, I just want to know what to do about our friendship becuase I know it wont be as strong becuase she lied 2 me about 4 years and i just need help with what 2 do about our friendship
2007-03-18 07:50:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know I'm not jealous becuase I didn't want Annie, and I have told her how mad I am, but she is just wimpy and she starts to cry. I just dont know how I should tell her without her freaking out. She always gets her om to call my mom when we fight, and then I get in trouble!Also, I have to get a ride from her from school everyday, so i dont want it to be awkward.
2007-03-18 07:51:09 · update #1
We get into a couple of fights a year, but we get over it in like 20 mintues, but I just dont think I will be able to get over this.....she broke my trust factor with her! How can I get over this?
2007-03-18 08:09:23 · update #2
I've tried talking to her calmly, but she starts crying...any other ideas?
2007-03-18 08:09:52 · update #3
Then ask her why didnt she tell you that she could sing?
I know its hard to tell her that you are a bit upset but since your bestfriends it shouldnt be as hard as it sounds and also you see each other alot so you have alot of oppertunites to tell her.
dont hold back it would strengthin your friendship if you told her how you felt about it all.
but support her dont let her down.
2007-03-18 07:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by ::penguins:: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here's what you do, support your friend. Don't be jealous of her. The more you support her, the less envious or jealously you will feel. Don't ruin a friendship over a play.
2007-03-18 07:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by musiclover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm that's a hard one.I get into lots of fight with my best friend to. but we alays seem to work it out. you have tobe very vocal about this (talk to her about it) don't yell at her,just calmly tell her how you feel. simple as that.
2007-03-18 08:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by emma o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋