she my daughter friend of many years. same age as daugher 22 years old.
2007-03-18 07:39:19 · 45 answers · asked by Carebear22 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you ever watched Jerry Springer? A lot of them shows, show women who moved in other girls to try and help out only to find out that their man started cheated with that female. Family friend or not I dont think it would be such a good idea.
2007-03-18 08:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Amber Vance 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think I would let her move in. Things changes and even though you've known her for years its not the same knowing somebody than living with somebody. Obviously, if you asked this question is because deep inside you may have the doubt on letting her move in to your house. Again I might be wrong because she is best friends with your daughter but I wouldnt take the risk because you might never know what can happen. I think its better to leave the house how it is than to change things around and later you will regret.
2007-03-26 04:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by Armani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It depends on your relationship with your husband but the fact that you ask the question shows me you have some lingering doubts about what might happen sharing your home with a young woman. Trust your instincts. It would be a bad idea. Perhaps she could move in with your daughter instead?
2007-03-23 20:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this girl living with you where is her family? Also if she is old enough to move out then she needs to get her own place. I would not be running a boarding house. If you are concerned about your husband cheating no girl needs to move in for that to happen. However I would not allow this as this is not normal
2007-03-23 09:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this woman needs a place to stay for a time then yes i would allow that provided you are going to be around all most all the time your husband is home with this woman.
he may be the most faithful husband there is but lead us not into temptation. is part of the lords prayer for good reason .
so again if you can keep the temptation part down to a minimum then OK . i suggest that while she is there you make very sure your husbands sexual needs are very much taken care of well and good often and with no hassle i have a headache crap during this time nope you get on the horse and ride that horse until he is very tired and happy each day.
2007-03-18 08:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO. Because even Jesus said " the body is weak", so why open up a can of warms then cry " he cheated on me" Would it be OK with him if a 22 year old stud came living in y'alls house????
No. ma'am, if you want to help her, have your daughter do it, she is her friend, not you....You are an adult and will pay, as I am sure you can afford it.
2007-03-25 07:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ariana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about helping her get a reasonably priced apartment and assist her in searching for a job. Even if she is a college student she can still work and pay bills. She is a woman not a young girl. Time for her to be responsible.
2007-03-18 08:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by denise b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a woman of 22 should be out finding a place of her own. That's a lil too old to be living at "home". I would go with no on this one.
2007-03-18 07:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by Laura C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sounds like there might be some trust issues there.
Does your daughter still live at home? If not have her go and live with her. I really dont think having her stay with you if there is some trust issues.Talk to your husband about this.
2007-03-26 04:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by samiam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had that same story 2 years back , she is my very very good friend i live with her for a year then she is very nice , close to us but first i don't mind if she speak to my hubby on the while roling her slf on her bed and giggling there . she like to come with us shopping and i was pist off when she ask my hubby to buy staff for her and she must ask me, i felt diffrently ans she aking us to live with us atleast to save money for her . But whenever my hubby visit us she's not wearing any bra to cover her self as respect and my hubby wasn't comportable at all . so main thing is even you are very good to each other with your friend never ever let them live with u , specially husband is there . Sometimes it can break your marriage or your good relationship bec. of helping other to make you hurt.
So my asnwer is never!!!!!!!!
2007-03-23 03:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by amwid-u:) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋