You must train yourself. When you have a good thought, reward yourself with sometihng you enjoy- a cookie, a favorite tv show, a good song. Deprive yourself of these things so you will want to think optimistically. Be consistent with this. Make a journal to recod your progress. It takes a month to form a new habit.
If you REALLY want to, try this. It takes dedication.
2007-03-18 07:55:47
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answered by Anonymous
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" Always look on the bright side of life " Why don't you be optimistic ALL the time ? if you're only prepared to be an optimist for some of the time then you've already got a negative mind set and you will pay the price..
2007-03-18 07:37:38
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answered by widow_twanky1 2
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You fill your mind with positive thoughts. Think of something you really like and enjoy. Once a negative thought comes in, change it right away to something happy. It will take time to retrain your thoughts but it is possible.
Have you heard of the new movie out called THE SECRET?
Go and rent it, it teaches us how to be positive. Good luck.
2007-03-18 07:19:25
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answered by elanabutcher 4
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be optimistic is a choice...
just pick it up...
2007-03-18 07:59:54
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answered by bee_ 2
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remember what is yours and what you control and take care of it. Smile and love life. be happy . laugh often. make friends and do not jugde them with a different standard than letting them love themselves.
2007-03-18 07:22:39
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answered by RayM 4
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Just decide that you are not going to think negative ! And stick to it !
2007-03-18 07:30:48
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answered by Anonymous
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