What to look for? Curiosity, trying to research affairs, male attraction signals, how men display it. Specific signals, please!
2007-03-18 07:13:02 · 16 answers · asked by Mary P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I'm not personally interested in a married man. I am writing a paper on sexual attraction and a big part of it is the role it plays in extra-marital affairs.
I do think it's interesting to understand how affairs START. We all pretty much know how they end!!
So is the married man the pursuer all the time? If so, how do they show it?
I think the whole thing is fascinating, really (attraction, that is).
2007-03-18 07:28:38 · update #1
It's academic research for school, guys! Not some random research for personal purposes. No, Y! Answers won't be my only source, lol! It's a good way to know what people in general think, plus it's Sunday! :)
Thanks for the replies!
2007-03-18 07:40:28 · update #2
To presleygirl:
Well, if YOU don't believe that there is such a thing as research for writing a paper and normal curiosity, then YES, I do think you MIGHT be stupid.
Not everybody who comes to these forums is a 15-year-old with nothing better to do.
If you have to tie it to personal experience, that's really your hang-up and problem, not mine. :) Have a nice day, sweetie!
2007-03-18 08:18:09 · update #3
You know if he reacts to your come on's. I think some men are more prone to cheating than others. My experiences in my life have told me most married men would cheat.
2007-03-18 08:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by denise b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mean you are trying to pick up married men? Well, they'll cheat 'with' you if they have a white line where their wedding band was before they took it off, for sure. I am curious as to why you want to research this. Everyone knows that married men who cheat, do it because they need a new exciting sexual adventure and are not content with 'same ole, same ole, at home. They aren't thinking of their spouse's feelings, and they are selfish creatures by nature. These types of men usually have issues with their worthiness, too. They need constant conquests to feel manly.
If you are dating a man and want to know if he'll ever cheat on you....you should discuss all sorts of things. .... his feelings on religion, politics, finances, etc. And you ask him what he thinks of married men who cheat on their wives and you really listen to his reactions and answers. You find out if his own father cheated on his mother and how long they were married. Many men will react exactly as their father did OR exactly opposite of their father, depending on their relationship.
2007-03-18 07:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you asking this question because you want to have an affair with a married man or just being curious.?? My guess is you are interested in a married man --anyway--if you start conversation with him and show him you are interested by throwing some hints he may pick up the ball and realize you want him--you are the one that has to initialize the conversation towards having an affair---married men have to be very careful as there are some woman out there that are just friendly and would get insulted if a man approaches them
good luck and if there are any woman out there that want to start a conversation withme by all means do ----lol
2007-03-18 07:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by willtdn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave married men alone. There are enough single men out there for you to be with. There's no reason for your need to "research" the signals of male to female attraction. You either know the signs or you don't.
2007-03-18 07:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by Little sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to know for sure. There are many factors. Women are just as aggressive in affairs as men.
2007-03-18 08:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have zero social skills if you can't even interest a married man. Keep clawing, lonely girl
2007-03-18 07:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by texas_bcd 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
He flirts, tells you how pretty you are, buys you little gifts, flowers, remembers your birthday, or special days to YOU, smiles a lot at you, comes to where you work, asks you out for dinner...just the two of you, tells you he has waited for you all his life, etc.......Beware, he IS a cheater!
2007-03-18 07:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he looks like he has a banana in his pocket, that is a good clue!
2007-03-18 07:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by krash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He keeps a box of condoms in the glove box of his car.
2007-03-18 07:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by Pipe Grampa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one sure fire way to know when you wake up in the morning an he in bed with you,,,, but if his ring finger, ,is white where his ring was at
2007-03-18 07:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋