I have been friends with this girl for two years. We have always been "Unique" and never tried to fit in, but lately, she has been acting like/trying to be a prep (those who don't know, the annoying popular type girls). She's started being superficial, acting dumb, been making fun of me (calling me goth/troubled), ditching me, and being a whiney brat to fit in with the preps.I have problems with this clique and don't want to be friends with her if she's going to be like them. What do I do?
2007-03-18 07:09:17 · 6 answers · asked by panic_l0ve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Then tell her that you don't want to be friends with someone like that. See what see decides. If she thinks being a prep is better then having a real friend. She got to make that choice herself.
2007-03-18 07:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sink down to her level in the name calling games. Stay true to who you want to be. She is trying out something new, wanting to "fit in" with the "popular" kids, this is not unusual, but difficult for you. From my experience of popular kids they are quite shallow and their friendships aren't that deep. I think you need to just carry on being you, and leave her to be friends with them if she pleases, it's quite possible that it'll be a phrase. Just stay clear of the clique, if you react too much to them they will get worse. Try not to let her comments get to you, I'm sure she wouldn't be saying those things if she wasn't trying to fit into the clique! Peer pressure is sadly very effective at changing people. Stay strong. All the best
2007-03-18 14:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by iccleanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who doesnt make fun of you and you feel comfotable around there click. There are usually tons of poeple in public schools (im not sure if you go to public or catholic) even if there are not that may people in your school there is probably one other person who feels the same way you do about a friend. If she is really a real friend she would not be mean to you. Also she would come back to you. You can try talking to her. I would try to find someone else to hang out with and she will come back. YOu dont have to be friends with them you can just be friends with her. While she is hanging out with them do something with another friend.
Dont change who you are for her. If she wants to be your friend she will change what she is doing wrong to stay friends.
Good luck with your friend!
2007-03-18 14:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are her friend so she expects you to be there for her no matter what changes she's making. Try to get used to the new her. Maybe it's just a phase, maybe not. Don't throw your friendship away just because she's expanding her social network.
2007-03-20 19:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by valley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her...get new friends shell soon come crawling back when the other girls do the same to her. dont change for her...or anyone
2007-03-18 14:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, one day soon she will open her eyes and realize what she has done. especially when her new friends turn on her. which can very well happen
2007-03-18 14:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by twyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋