Are You As Cute As You Think You Are?

Answer 1

NAhh!!! I'm old, fat and best of all...married, so it doesn't matter

Answer 2

The problem with this question is assuming that there is an objective value of cuteness to which a person can be compared. For example many African tribes find women with shaved heads attractive, on the other hand Europeans tend to prefer women with long hair.

Even within a culture where there is usually a consensus about what is beautiful, cute etc... there is still a large amount of subjectivity, for example a large number of my (mainly women, but a few men) friends claim that Johnny Depp is cute, but there is a significant minority who totally disagree. So in conclusion, I'm probably less cute to some people and more cute to others.

Answer 3

If you ask, most people will say they're cuter than the average person (as well as funnier, smarter, better drivers, etc.).

But statistically speaking, that's not possible, is it? By definition, half of the population must be above average, and the other half must be below.

It makes sense that we should be so self-delusional or at least charitable in our own evaluation of ourselves. Being as confident as you can be is a tool of preservation for the self and the species; unconfident people tend to breed less and take their DNA out of the gene pool.

Answer 4

Probably not

Your impression of yourself is formed as a child. If your parents (or someone really close to you) constantly tells you you are ugly, you will grow up believing you are ugly. However, if you are told you are attractive, you will grow up thinking you are attractive. This is known as conditioning, and happens when you are told something so often you start believng it.

your self image is one of the most important psychological ideas you will have. Say for example someone challenges this image you have of yourself, you will attribute an explanation for that persons behaviour which does not damage your self image. Say, for example, you think your new top is really nice, and you think you look really sexy in it, but someone at school/work/uni tells you that your new top is horrible and makes you look fat, you will say to yourself something along the lines of 'their just jealous they don't have as nice a top as me'. this way your self image stays the same

Self image is important in a number of other ways. The psychologist Rogers believed we have a thing called an ideal self, which is the image we have of how we would most like to be. He thought that if your self image and ideal self were similar, you would have good mental health and would be confident ect. But if these were really different, we could develop mental illnesses such as depression, anorexia, bulemia, self harming, suicidal thoughts ect.

Also you have to remember that different people find different things attrative, so what is attractive to you is probably ugly to someone else.

So no, you are probably not as cute as you think you are

Answer 5

I would like to think of myself as cute. But after spending an entire day with my daughter, I realize I am not as cute as she.

Answer 6

if you ask me this i had thought i am cuter but not cuter. i know many are cute then me. every child in the eyes of their parents are cute. so in that i am also cute.
but i prefer to say that cutness comes from the heart. when we are honest and truthful and at the same time playfull happy we look cute but if are full of worries and tensions we would look very different.

Answer 7

I don't think I am "cute", nor do I want to be it.
I love my family, my wife, and that is what matters.
If they find I am "cute", so far. But I have no idea about being it, not will I ever do anything to become cute!
"Vanitas vanitatum, omnis is vanitas" said the Ecclesiast.

Answer 8

Everybody's cute from the 5th floor looking down.

Answer 9

I think I am ADORABLE and as long as I think this, i think I am making the world a happier place. My husbnad knows, if 'Dandouna isnt happy, aint nobody happy'. So keep those good thoughts comming

Answer 10

i'm not sure i get exactly what ur asking. but i think i do... so i'll try to asnwer.

Um... usually, women especially, seem to always think that they are uglier than they usually are. Woman are usually much, much prettier than they think they are.

On the other hand, men sometimes, have toooo much confidence... and thats a problem. lol

Answer 11

Nope. Apparently people tell me I'm cuter than I think I am.