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Do u think its good to work when u have 3months old daughter n 19months old son at home????I dont want to leave my kids alone at home but i dont have my marriage security anymore ,we r n such position that it can break any time.So,really m wondering what to do?? If u think urself n my position what u would have did???

Answer 1

Become finacially stable so whatever happens with your marriage, you will be ok. If he leaves you, you don't want to be broke with 2 young kids at home and not be able to support them. AND if he is still your husband....ask him. As long as you and the kids are being abused, try to work on the family situation. If you get a babysitter the kids are not "alone"


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Answer 2

When a Mother has a CHOICE to, either work or stay home, I believe she should stay home with the kids. This is one of the things going wrong in today's world. Kids coming home to an empty house. That will get them into trouble sooner or later. By staying home, the parent is able to help give kids a stronger foundation of learning to deal with this tough world and learn better, WRIGHT FROM WRONG as well as MANNERS ( all these attributes that are sorely missed today with young people)
If you must go to work ( I had to), it is of the out most importance that, you, will find a VERY GOOD person or persons to help take care of you're Kids, while you're gone.
We have to do what we have to and staying in a bad marriage is not a good beginning for you're children and by going to work , you will find you're own INNER STRENGTH and self confidence, that too will be beneficial for kids.

Answer 3

NO! NEVER LEAVE CHILDREN HOME ALONE!
If you are low income, and must work, most states have programs that pay up to 90% of day care expenses. Call any licenced day care provider in your area, and they can tell you more.
You may also consider opening your own home day care. That is how I earned money when my children were young.
Then I was offered a job at my children's school as an aide when my youngest entered 1st grade. I've always worked the same hours my kids were in school.

Answer 4

That's a really good question. You obviously can't leave your kids alone. Can't you find them a baby sitter or something? Or maybe you should work at home so you'll be able to stay with the kids. My mom used to baby-sit at home, and she had about 6 babies to watch, including my 1 and 2 year old brother and sister. But she got good money for it. Maybe there are also jobs for men that you can do at home.

Answer 5

..... ... u need to decide on the health issues, y do u need to take such an issue see it is not only about ur life ur kids need their father so be patient ..do not take any decision when ur frustrated and angry on anything ...better stay calm i know it is hard but be patient it is not about ur confidence i am talking about k ....but it is always good to work u search for a job may be that will give u a solace k all the best

Answer 6

First of all contact your local social services agency, they may have help for you, day care, babysitting, job placement, etc. Do you have any other family who can help out? Maybe someone can watch them at night while they are sleeping and you can work night and be with them during the day. Good luck.

Answer 7

Don't break Ur marriage.They need Ur(both) care & love.Discuss to ur husbend about the problem,I hope every thing will be ok.

Answer 8

You might try getting a job at a daycare. Then you can take your kids with you and hopefully get free childcare...or at least discounted.

Answer 9

I think you're wise to work. You want to make sure you can support yourself and your children even though your marriage is going to end.

Answer 10

atleast 4 ur childrens safety dont break ur relationship with ur wife