Im a first time mom, and in just a few hours im going in to get that E-2 gel put on me, and im really nervous, because i know that when i leave the hospital the baby that's been kicking me, and that ive been growing for these last 9 1/2 months will be outside of me...ive probally never been more scared in my life, seeing as i feel like im facing a brick wall right now, does anybody have any advice on the birthing process, breastfeeding, new mom jitters??? anything would be helpful thanks!!!
2007-03-18 05:46:33 · 8 answers · asked by ruspecialenuf 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hi! Good luck! I won't sugar coat it it's the toughest thing I have ever done and I have done it three times all natural births.
I was older though and some people just pop those little rascals out no fuss no muss.
Having said that honestly it is an amzing experience! Try to be relaxed, stretch, walk around, rest.
See if you can get your mind on something else or go the other way and visualize that birth as smooth and flawless! Actually that is the best. Be there! If you do a good job of that on you may not need to be induced.
Congradulations darlin mom!
Smile, this to shall pass. :o)
Talk to baby too. You are in this together! LOL!
2007-03-18 05:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and keep calm during labour, move and walk around alot and try and keep upright or on your hands and knees during pushing as this is the most efficient way of doing things, it speeds labour up and makes it a little less painful than it would be if you were laid flat on your back. with the breastfeeding, perservierance is the main thing, if you think ''oh well I can always bottle feed if it hurts too much or its not going that well'' chances are you will never succeed, if it does hurt and things arent going too well dont hesitate in contacting your health visitor or lactation consultant or anyone else who knows a lot about breastfeeding for advice-dont be scared to ask for help! and as for the new mum jitters, just relax and take everything one thing at a time and dont try and do too much at once, a relaxed mum is the best kind of mum.
Good luck hun, you wont need it though!
2007-03-18 05:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by angelcakes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same worries three weeks ago!! Just keep breathing and take it one step at a time. Keep in mind your babys is just as scared as you are!
Also, don't let the hospital kick you out if you don't feel ready to leave! If you're not ready to go home just yet, ask to stay an extra day. I stayed 3 days because I was so nervous about breastfeeding.
About breastfeeding, relax and don't get discouraged too quickly if it doesn't work out right away. It took me and my baby a week to get it right and now I am producing so much milk I am donating some of it to the Red Cross for their milk bank! Just stick with it and don't worry if you have to feed your baby formula as well as breastmilk in the beginning. It won't kill her and it will give you some peace while your milk comes in or your baby learns how to latch on. If you get really frustrated and honestly think you can't do it after a week, don't let anyone pressure you into keeping it up. Lots of kids were raised on formula and they turned out just fine! breastmilk is best, more convenient and free, but formula is a great source of nutrition too!! Don't let those militant breastfeeding moms pressure you!!!
2007-03-18 06:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by Bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! I know it must be frightening to you being your first time and all. Please try to relax, and stay as calm as possible. Stress and depression are two obstacles you must overcome. You didn't say if you had a good family support system. My sister raised 3 children on her own, long before there was Internet or organizations set up to help young mothers. She did a wonderful job and everything turned out just fine. I know you will be a great mother because you are showing so much concern now. Reach out for help. Do not try to go through this alone. Ask your doctor and nurses for advise on who to contact. Speak to other mothers while you are at the hospital, about their experiences with the things that are worrying you. You will be in my prayers. Peace2U
2007-03-18 06:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by psykobarbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read your questions for the last month or more. Because many are fear based and have helped me in my studies. Please do not take this wrong. They were asked very well and I understood them. Unlike many on here. So that is great. And some well they were cute because I had the same fears with my first.
I think you are ready. I read someone had told you to get your birth plan. As long as that is done...Watch a good feel good movie. Something that will make you laugh.
You are doing great. You have asked many good questions and got some great answers. By what I see it is time to relax and enjoy yourself.
Congrats hun!!!!!
2007-03-18 06:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by charontheloose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STAY CALM! You made it this far, you can do it! Just make sure you trust your instincts. Believe in yourself and get plenty of rest now! In a few hours you will need all your energy. It is scary because it is the unknown! Your body has prepared for this, now your mind has to catch up! Don't rush into any of it. Good luck to you!
2007-03-18 05:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is sleep. Sleep as much as you can. You need to be well rested for labor. You will not get much time to rest in the next few days, so do it while you can.
2007-03-18 06:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by autumnofserenity@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be fine stop worrying and good luck you will be great
2007-03-18 05:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋