He is being cold and distant =, won't have a proper conversation with me and when I ask him wahts wrong he says nothing. He is also being less affectionate with our daughter.
I don't understand, why won't he tell me whats wrong? What should I do?
2007-03-18 05:21:46 · 19 answers · asked by cigaro19 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we, women, tend to worry too much, be sensitive and sometimes even suspicious. let it be, give him space, he might be tired, he might have had an argument with someone, has a problem at work and doesn't want to burden you, whatever, he might want to talk later, and it might be just one of these days and it'll just pass :)
2007-03-18 08:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sahar 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People do specific things at specific times for specific reasons. One of the main reasons men get cold and distant with their partners, is when they are thinking of someone else. Doesn't mean he's cheating....yet....he could be just thinking of another girl. He gets mad at you because that helps him feel less guilty about it. Think about all the circumstances leading up to his current behaviour. Are their any signs this could be true? Best not to pester him. This will give him more ammo to drive you farther away. See what happens in the next little while. I always recommend doing something to make him fantasize about you again.
2007-03-18 12:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure its nothing to worry about! Like people have been saying...everyone needs time to themselves! He just might be feeling a little pressure at the moment? Just let him be like this for today or 2...but if it carries on longer then you will have to talk to him about it, Just say you need to talk....but your gonna be the one talking and you want him to listen!
I hope everything goes ok!
Good Luck x
2007-03-18 12:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by Danni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you had a row over past day?
Was he out on the town last night?
as another poster said it could be because it's mothers day?
I think you should have a chat with him once your baby has gone to bed or perhaps get a sitter and go for a walk, drink
2007-03-18 12:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he have a night out with the lads last nite?? Has he been a naughty boy?? Think you need to get to the bottom of this!!
2007-03-18 12:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone has their bad days - He is probably in his cave! (read men are from Mars women are from Venus) the more you nag the more he will come withdrawn.
2007-03-18 13:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by Janie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just having a bad day. See if he is any different tomorrow
2007-03-18 12:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this stuff before and IF it persists, you need to find a lawyer ASAP! Check it out, look for patters in his sex drive, a new concern with his appearence, his credit , and cell phone bills. Unless he landed a new job, he's cheating on you.
2007-03-18 12:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by Battlerattle06 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
every 1 needs some time to themselves. Stop pestering
2007-03-18 12:24:51 · answer #9 · answered by dIsTuRbEd 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Ignore him for today if the problem persists then hit him with the frying pan.
2007-03-18 12:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by taxed till i die,and then some. 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋