she first text me after i give her my number the her the night her husband ask to marry him.she first met me a week after getting married.she didn't tell she was married till a month latter.she asking me to wait on her because she give her marriage 6 months they say into all the time.
2007-03-18 05:11:17 · 27 answers · asked by big boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
u have another mans problem and hes got one big problem a cheating wife u call this love its abuse of emotion run as fast as u can
2007-03-18 05:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's sad, but now's the time to be a Big Man, not just a Big Boy and fact up to the facts. If she figures that her marriage will only last six months, then she isn't the one for you anyway. You really don't know her that well. Right now your living in a fantasy world, wake up and smell the coffee. The clue to you problem is that she would leave you once she got bored and found another lover or cheat on you etc. So just forget it and go out and find a "real" person who will love you forever.
It's better to have loved, then to not to have loved at all, but in this case it wasn't love.
2007-03-18 12:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a caring man get out now because you will have your heart broken. Do you really want to wait for her to make her mind up, meeting you when it suits her, and all the time knowing that you are letting the woman you love go home for some other guy to have sex with her. It will drive your demented and she will not have a concience about it. No matter how much she says she loves you. Just go now before you get hurt. If she loves you she will do what's neccessary quickly and find you before you find someone else. Believe me you dont want to watch this happen. It will kill you. It's the worst thing a woman can do to a man. If you can forgive her for it then you probably deserve better anyway. She probably wont respect you for letting her do it to you anyway. Take back control of your life. Make her earn your respect and affection!
2007-03-18 12:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Yeah yeah yeah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is very hard to understand.But from what I got-she lied to you from the start right? She didn't tell u she was married? That should tell u what kinda person she is. If ur a decent person u would leave her alone. She is married. If u leave her alone and she still gets divorced at least u can say it wasn't your fault. The husband doesn't deserve that! Seriously, try to put urself in his place how would u feel? Why would u wanna b w/some1 like her? If things get serious w/u2 what makes u think she isn't gonna do the same to u? (no matter what line she feeds u) Find a new woman! she sounds like trash!(sorry)
2007-03-18 12:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by same girl/new name :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman or situation is not worth the emotional stress and turmoil that comes along with romantically loving someone who is married. Although easier said that done, it would be best to move on before you invest even more feelings in a dead end situation. If she was truly interested in a relationship with you, (1) she would not have made the choice to get married to her husband, (2) if things were that bad with her current relationship, she wouldn't have asked you to 6 months while she gives her marriage a "trial run". That is crazy. I am sure you are deserving enough to be in a loving healthy relationship with someone totally committed to you.
2007-03-18 12:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and move on! She hasn't been honest with you or her husband. Don't let her string you along while she tries to figure out what she wants. What kind of future could you have with a person who marries another man while still showing an interest with you? And now she says she's going to give her marriage 6 months? Please, run, don't walk away from her! This is a train wreck waiting to happen!
2007-03-18 12:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by sandramunroe11550 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An honorable man does not pursue a married woman regardless of the circumstances. And think hard about this one, she was instigating a relationship with you after being married for one week, what kind of woman is she? If you two do end up together, is she trustworthy? Don't let your lust for her blind your good sensibility or you may find yourself in the same boat as her husband is right now.
2007-03-18 12:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is obviously not a very honest person. especially if she is lying to here husband. she is probably controlling too, telling you to wait 6 months sounds like BS to me I'd move right away from this chick. it will turn out to be big trouble for you.take a step back and look whats happening around you.good luck
2007-03-18 12:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by doug h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you hard up or what? You deserve her you sound like a perfect match 2 cheaters . If she gets with you shes going to do the same thing big boy
2007-03-18 12:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her so she can either give her marriage a chance or have the space she needs to deal with it ending. What you are feeling is likely lust. Real love would do what is best for her.
2007-03-18 12:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget her and move on. She's not worth waiting for, but chances are she won't be available anytime soon (unless her husband gets smart and figures out she's a loser).
2007-03-18 12:14:18 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋