what are their causes and effects to the family???
2007-03-18 05:03:23 · 8 answers · asked by zhieth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I married young and had kids young! I am still young lol
I dont think it is so much age as it is the person you marry! If everyone thinks about it our grandparents married young and they made it I think society has made the statics for young married couple not to make it!!
Sometimes I myself think wow I am married and kids already I am missing out but then I think what am I missing? Fun drinking parties,STD's ect. So I am smart enough to know that after about a few years of all of that what am i going to want the answer is always a family in which I am blessed to already have!!
2007-03-18 05:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Early marriage it always depends on the people who are getting married. If they are mature enough and are in love then go for it. Marriage is a thing to do because you love the other person and want to spend the rest of your life with them. It doesnt matter if your young if you have that feeling what else can you do.
2007-03-18 12:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest problem with early marriages is the people involved haven't become who they really are yet. As they mature they may suddenly realize this is NOT what they wanted at all.
The causes - trying to escape parents, pregnancy, trying to grow up or thinking you are grown up, wanting access to sex 24/7, thinking it'll "fix" everything.
Effects - well on the people involved it can cause them to not trust other people, to not trust themselves on any children involved - devastating.
It's all around not a good ideal. There's always time for it later on. If the people involved love one another love can stand to wait and won't be in a rush.
2007-03-18 12:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by MissWong 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not goos trust me. ur too young and immature to raise a family and support one another. i dont suggest it ever. u'll have to get a job and support ur wife and maybe also support ur kids if u have some. u'll have to deal with the regular fights in the family and try ur best to act mature and adultish which wont go that well if ur not truly mature. ur wife wouldnt be ready to take care of children and she wouldnt know how to be a good mother to them. she would have to work so that both of u wouldnt go into debt, but that wouldnt work because she would have to stay home to watch over the kids.
now u see how much work it is? when ur older u can easily get married and live much easier than what i just described. :) so yeah i would love it if u would choose me as best answer! thanx lol! :)
2007-03-18 12:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by HL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marry only if you are emotionally and financially stable.don't
get married for the sake of marriage.Don't have kids because
you did not take precaution.you need great responsibility and
maturity in order to be married!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!worst case scenario will be an early divorce!
2007-03-18 12:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by wan_spore 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a thing If your a butt head then your a butt head getting married early isn't going to change that
2007-03-18 12:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
causes are usually pregnancy and the effects can be bad
2007-03-18 12:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the family falls apart and the kids suffer
2007-03-18 12:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋