Hello,I am a student of class 8.I have many caring,good friends on the net.They help me in everything,but when i need help from my friends with whom i have grown up they refuse.Why dont they like ne?
2007-03-18 04:35:37 · 24 answers · asked by Subhayan C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ignore them net friend can never b real friends!!!
2007-03-18 19:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by splendid!!!!!!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i think u shud just stop taking help from ur friends who have got such an stupiod attitude the world is full of friends dont jus confine in one particular place move around and see and i m sure u'll find a true friend who will be very different from ur other mean friends and i think maybe ur "so called friends" are jealous wid u and thats why dont wanna help u but dont jus worry and relax coz things at this age happens and the one who is confident abt himself only survives through it so BEST OF LUCK
2007-03-19 06:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Aasma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently there is no reason why your real friends shouldn't like you when your net friends do. About help, remember that most young people show a devilishly selfish streak nowadays. They are eager to grab anything from anybody but far less willing to give. I doubt if those so called friends of yours really help each other. Chances are they don't. So don't get upset. At least you know their true colours.
2007-03-18 04:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you grew up with these people doesn't mean you have to be friends with them anymore. Maybe you just have different interests and it's common for people to grow apart - especially at your age since everybody is trying to figure out who they really are. Try to make friends through a group or club that you can join. That way you'll meet people that share a common interest and will give you more to talk about. Friends may come and go but it's important to not give up and keep trying to meet people and not to shut yourself out from others. Honestly, it will get easier and better as you get older.
2007-03-19 05:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by GingerGirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey kid.....
U are really so sweet. U are just in 8th standard and u seem to speak like those of big men. I don't understand what u mean by help. If some people say that they don't help it is out of their inability to solve it. So don't come to the conclusion that they don't like u. Even if they don't like u just ignore them becoz they don't know abt u . So dont care abt such friends dear
2007-03-18 18:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by kirthika D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
several things to pt out
1. chang your avatar - it makes you look like a wanna-be
2. your friends may not want to get involved
3. they are not your true friends. you proly would do anything for them and expect the same in the end. FORGET THEM IF THEY DONT HELP! try to be independent
4. dont talk about little non-important things
5. dont complain
maybe some past actions have led to this 8P
2007-03-18 18:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by Babaloo S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!This is interesting. I have never heard of such unfaithful and not-caring friends in my life. I mean, when you have grown up playing and sharing things,what makes them refuse to help you. They should be helping you.Best way is to stay friends with ur online friends but just behave the same way with your childhood friends the way they behave with you.
Best of Luck :-)
2007-03-21 03:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi subhayan
Let me tell u that the people u r calling ''friends'' r not ur frnds any longer & u need to understand that.People change with time.Maybe they do not find u attractive & that's not ur fault.I prefer u to move ahead,after all they r not so important.Show them that u do not need their help & have many well-wishers.
Good luck
2007-03-18 06:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by mysterious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they r not ur real friends that means. i know how u feel cause to be honest i dont get along with my neighbours that i have been living next to forever but i get along with my online and school friends. a friend is someone who u can ask help and they say yes. why hang out with them who dont like. theres nothing to figure out.
2007-03-18 11:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by Payal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that. find friends who are always there for you when you need them. friends that are kind, fun, help full and caring. not only they have to be there for you but you have to be there for them. if you don't want to lose the friends you have now then work it out with them so they could become real friends that are always there
2007-03-18 04:47:08 · answer #10 · answered by cuttie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. I kind of know how you feel, well, I did last year. Ask them if they want to go somewhere, perferably not the movies, because you guys cant talk. So try somewhere like lunch, dinner, etc. I'm glad i could help!
2007-03-18 04:40:23 · answer #11 · answered by bershnark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋