Who can tell me something that you know about me that I don't know about myself?

Question

I think I know a lot about myself, but I just popped into horoscopes and came up with this question: Who can tell me something that they may have percieved about me that I don't know about myself, something you see in me that I do not see in myself, or what you see my future as being for me? I see in my crystal ball that this should bring me some interesting answers, I will be excitedly waiting for them. Smile for all of you out there that have been giving me such great answers already. You know that this is just a for fun one don't you?

I actually am a rebel and a warrior for my cause, I actually am a leader and can be a follower. I like guidance, but I see that as part of being a good leader. I actually have a few really close friends and many acquaintances and am well known for what I do, I in fact am not a skank and the other bad things that were said about me, I don't appreciate that. Sometimes I do care about how I look and some times I don't, depending on the situation. I'm down to earth and I like nature. My car is a 4 cyl., I am one of few in America that are not in debt, I own my home and my property, I have a Masters degree and yes it is authentic I earned it, I am a good person, honest to a fault many times, I don't like idiots, I get the message out if I have one, I have actually exceeded many expectations, I only compete with myself, and no I don't like to be patted on my head I have gotten out of situations that were not ethical rather then being patted on my head. Still waiting, got anymore?

My b/d is 3/29 see this link which I just found http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=An2RwoZ7MNtL2nsGdGkNqqnXxQt.?qid=20070318022501AAQ4bRZ

It is not so much caring what others think about me as trying to make some new friends or acquaintances does that make sense? Does that make me bad? If I cared that much about what others think about me I wouldn't be half the person that I am because it would not have been allowed, but trashing me is not allowed either, if one is saying something negative to or about me in a nice way I can take that and sometimes work with it to help make myself a better person. If they are just being a smart aleck and trashing because that is what they want to do then I don't think anyone should take that. You might want to also check out some of my other Q&A's on here and then check this out:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/IES-Matters/
http://home.earthlink.net/~people-of-courage/
http://home.earthlink.net/~people-of-courage/lawsandrights

Most everyone here has a little peice of me, too many for me to answer them all, thank you peoples. There will be days to come and please ask some questions too so that we can answer yours. Ask all kinds and I will try to at least answer some of them that is a promise.

"You've got a bit of a crush on the ol' Captain." now that would depend on who the Captain is ? I do have a crush on someone and they know it, don't know if I like to call it a crush even that sounds too young for me, but that depends on who the Captain is ? That should be the next 22 million dollar question? I like my friends that is for sure, I try hard to like all people unless they do something to me that I don't like them for and that has to be a fairly bad thing. I have to have a good reason first. I don't just "not like" people for "no" reason most of the time. Thanks for the answers.

English is like the psychiatric bible the DSM it is voted on by a panel, so it is political. It's not that I don't know that. LOL

If I did not have good self confidence how could I do this, allow "you" to disect me? LOL I am not standing behind fancy credentials, only "myself" here.

What I do is what I am! That is why I do it! I want to be content, be loved, give love, and don't we all? I feel sorriest for those who don't.

I do love myself, my family, my friends, not the kind that goes to my head though I don't like that, it is called being stuck up. I want to learn all things, be all things, do all things, life is a mystery.

"GOD" who has a right to judge that?

I think we should all share, and I do, as much as I can, and probably more then a lot of others in some ways. I protect others too!

I want to start over sometimes, always when I know "I" am in the wrong and if I know "I" have hurt someone, I do not like to hurt others, if I do "I" feel bad.

I am self sufficient to some extent, and headstrong.

In the scheme of things I "am" the only one I have to rely on. Others may be there sometimes, but I don't allow them to overrule me and many times they may not be there when I need them.

I have a very strong sense of what's "supposedly" right and wrong, but I want to hear others anyway so that I can check myself. I think the best is a mixture of it all.

I wonder about my mistakes, old flames etc, and the what ifs, much of the time. I feel like that is the best way to correct the future to understand and remember the past so I can change it or make the present different. We all make mistakes, some people forget that or where they have been at and so do not have a good compass to go by.

Most of the time I am confident, but that little voice that I hold back still whispers caution and wait sometimes. I am able to change direction because of that. A tree that will not bend will break because of that.

My ability to brush off the negative things others do or say about me came from some bad experiences when I was younger partially because I was bullied when I was a child and had a hard time dealing with it at the time. As I got older I realized they were wrong for doing it and it didn't make me bad, my perception of it changed. I could have made some changes, but it wasn't really me it was them that had the problem. I ended up being labeled and treated because of it, that was wrong.

I do need and value others opinions, but they do not define who or what I am or can be. I "do" in spite of them. My Masters is in Education.

I am the most intelligent when I am creative, I have learned to be out going, but I am really an introvert as a lot of public speakers are. I am happy most of the time, too quick to anger sometimes, then quick to forgive. I am loving and do know lots of people but let few get really close. Those I let get close I would do anything for.

I like all kinds of jokes. I love to laugh and smile I can get myself in trouble for it, and I especially enjoy those that can be with me in this. Those who don't mind looking silly or being happy or risking to make things different or better for all of us that have to live out here in this world, are some of my best friends. Even so I am a very determined person and really serious in a lot of ways a lot of times. I think it is important.

Answer 1

that your beautiful..

Answer 2

Well true fully, I don't really know you that well. ( hope to get to know you better.) Yet but from everything you just posted..... (and this is just a guess from personal experience.) I would say that your ability to brush off the negative things others do or say about you came some bad experiences when you were younger. You may have been bullied a lot when you were a child and had a hard time dealing with it at the time. As you got older you realized the you didn't need others opinions define who or what you are.By the way what is your masters in?

Now if you want to go with the horoscope thing. You are and Aries. My daughter is also and Aries she will be 15 on the 31. If you are at all like her you are very intelligent,out going, happy, quick to anger, then quick to forgive. You are also very loving and know lots of people but let few get really close. Those the you let get close you would do anything for. You also tend to put off doing things you should till the last minute.

Answer 3

OK, this is a wild guess but here goes.

1) You are intellectually curious but not a "geek" or straight A student.
2) You care about the world around you but you don't always follow through on it -- for instance, you may recycle, but you drive a car that wastes gas.
3) You care about the things that are going to happen to you in the world, but you are not completely in control of them. At work, you do what you are asked rather than taking action to define your role in the job, or if you are the owner of a one-person business, you are stuck trying to figure out how to expand it beyond just yourself.
4) You care about your appearance, but don't think of yourself as being especially fashion conscious.
5) You care about your physical health and well being and do SOME things about it (such as eating yogurt, drinking low-fat milk, etc.). But you could be doing more, like being more disciplined in your physical activity and spending more time outdoors.
6) You have a a lot of acquaintances, but few friends who really "understand" you. You want to have closer friends, and you want your closest friends to be OK with who you really are, but you're a little afraid to let them in that close.

How's that? Peace

Answer 4

You need an earth science type of hobby, such as mineral collecting -- Mineralogy, go walk in the hills and look for interesting rocks.
You need to spend more time outdoors, take up scuba diving and snorkeling, camping and hiking.
Get away from people, crowds and students, give yourself time to reflect while exposed to nature.
While out and away from others you will be able to formulate new strategies.

Answer 5

Here's One:
You didn't earn an MA, not in reality. However hard you studied, you were handed one by infallibility-preaching education tsars for having parroted the answers suppled to you by your incompetent government-licensed instructors (in failed definition and incompetent thinking and teaching methods).
This doesn't make you a bad person, but it does make you
someone in desperate need of retraining in scientific (categorizing) thought:
"Definition by the prioritized internal-real functional workings or 5--6 absolutely-necessary, most-important, most-central facts about anything, natural or mad-made".

Once you have learned to define in this adult way and not by false appearances, then what is available to you is honesty: honesty about what you really
know and what you only sort of know. Then, and only then, all your other good qualities,and you listed bunches of them, will serve your life good and no longer make you a self-doubter or someone set apart from other people who can't think any better than you used to--and probably who think a whole lot worse. I believe in you; and with this honest way of thinking, you won't have to care about what others think about you any more--you'll then be able to believe in you too.

Answer 6

Here goes......Relationship problems, started when you were a child, parents not there for you.

Fall in love easily, get into a lot of "stuff" in your relationships....they fall apart, you don't understand.You gave your all..... Great intentions but fall for the wrong person....all the time.

Lonely, you don't mind being alone ;you're just lonely...and can't figure out why.


Intelligent, introspective, afraid to let your guard down......

Have tried to "find" yourself in education ,music, and self help books.......This generally bores you..

You question spirituality, religion........

Horoscopes don't help, they are really insulting, every one is special, life provides the opportunities for growth, it's what you do with the opportunity that counts !

Answer 7

You will be elected President of the United States in 2016 and save the world from a terrible evil. To be as long winded as you are, you will make the perfect politician.

Answer 8

all right,albeit,
lets start with the obvious,
your self sufficient,headstrong and you dont like to rely on others.You have a sense of whats right and whats wrong,but you want to hear answers anyway.
the un-obvious,
you lay awake at night sometimes,not very often,but sometimes and wonder about the mistakes,old flames etc,and the what ifs, haunt you,not a lot but some times.You appear confident,but that little voice that your able to hold back still whispers caution
..........am i close?

Answer 9

You don't know that people is already plural.
You don't have self confidence.

You think that what you do is what you are.
You want to be content.
You want to be loved.
You want to give love

You need to find and love yourself first.
You want to learn how to do this.
You forgot about your spiritual development. You think something's missing. You forgot that if you don't feel close to GOD, who moved?
You want to share.
You want to learn to share.
You forgot that the best in life is sharing - a word, a song, a sunrise, a smile, and most of all yourself. You want to know how to start over.

GOD bless us always.
MBA-Boston Univ.
CPA-retired

Answer 10

Ok. Here goes. You will........hmmmm......this stupid crystal ball is fogging up again......hold on.......Ooops. I guess I got too close and fogged it up myself. Let's see.....you shouldn't put too much into what others think. As long as you aren't hurting others or yourself you're gonna be ok. I say you should smile more. If for no other reason that it makes you feel good. I see Hawaii in your future. Ooops. Daydreaming again. You like really bad jokes. Like this one: Two muffins in an oven. One muffin says to the other muffin, "Gosh it's getting hot in here." The other muffin says, "Aaahhhhhh!!! A talking muffin!" See, you laughed.

Answer 11

Your lucky numbers are 9 , 12, 21, 25, 33, and 42.