I've been having feelings for one of my friends for while now, but I have never acted upon it 'cause I haven't been sure how she felt about me. Yesterday me and my friend were at my house watching a movie. When it was over we had nothing to do so we started cuddling. We do this quite a lot, as soon as we are alone together actually. And then we where talking and she said: "I'm open for anything, I want to experiment, if a girl would come on to me I would go for it." I got totally embarassed and changed the subject. A little while later we where like wrestling, and I accidentally touched her breast, and she said: "hey, you can't touch me there, you're straight" and I said "how do you know that?" and she said "give me proof then" but I just got embarassed again and changed the subject. I've been pining for her for months for crying out loud! what's wrong with me?
2007-03-18 04:29:03 · 9 answers · asked by loveless_sselevol 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Bumber your just very! shy sweetie, so am I and I've found myself in that same spot before too. Don't be a smuck like I was just take a deep breath and dive in, if you don't you'll regret it for years to come.
2007-03-18 06:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by Please call me ( Sissy ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww... don't change the subject... Just talk about it.
You know you're lucky? Coz most people are afraid to make a pass at their crush, because they don't know what the reaction will be. But you already know that she'll 'go for it'.
There's nothing wrong with you, I guess that you're a tad bit scared... Next time you cuddle or wrestle, take a big breath to calm yourself down, and kiss your sweetheart! Either that for something more subtle...
Just DO something. Don't wait for her to make the first move. Since you haven't given any hints that you're lesbian/bi your friend might be scared to act out...
So... best of luck!
2007-03-18 20:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Silver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are a wuss. But then everyone goes through that at some point. Big burly guys are sometimes the biggest wusses. Just go for it. See what happens. Maybe you are nothing more than curious, but have fun and respect the other person.
2007-03-18 12:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't had the courage to come out yet. You will get there, but you have to admit it to yourself first. Good luck.
2007-03-18 12:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....dont change the subject! if you want this to happen then go for it! i mean she wants you to know that she is... les, or bi.....she's practacally throwing herself at you....there's nothing wrong with you...you're just new to this stuff...be open to new things with her...dont drive her off...
=] you'll know what to do hon...
=]
Chelsea
2007-03-18 15:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by *CHELSEA* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be so afraid of your feelings...ease up..try something new. If you don't like it just move on...nothing tried nothing gained.
2007-03-18 13:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just not very open when it comes to sex. when you feel comfortable enough to act on your feelings it will happen. maybe you'll get lucky and she will act first
2007-03-18 12:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ron N 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're lucky to have an opportunity to find out if you're bi or homo or whatever!
2007-03-18 12:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by theogoth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are Bi-Curious..
Give it a try...
Bi girls are hot..
2007-03-18 12:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋