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the determination and dedication to do well in life and career are harmful to women in their family and marriage life simply because husband always wants a loving housewife waiting for him at home preparing tea and snacks and taking care of children

2007-03-18 04:24:44 · 24 answers · asked by chandrika j 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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nothing wrong with those qualities in a woman but at the same time she may have to put her career on hold while raising her children for the first few years can allways go back to work in the future god only knows how welcome the extra income is

2007-03-18 04:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by gands4ever 5 · 3 0

They also have family life & true relationship, no doubt. It is the time duration available at home when husband & wife r together that matters. If a working lady is out for work for 6 hours it is adjustible. If she is out for 10 or 12 hours it affects family greatly. If she works at home like 'online job' she is the best & will never complain u r presenting. It is not necessary for a woman to wait for husband & prepare tea etc. for him. This small thing he can do himself. Now a days most men know short cut way of cooking for survival. If husband is reasonable & God fearing he will not put wife in trouble deliberately. Only ladies bother too much about such things. Men do not talk of these things much. Best thing is to divide works at home but not very strictly. Adjustments should exist as per day to day situations. Both husband & wife must appreciate each other frequently for household management etc. Artificial egoes should vanish at home. That is the key for tension free happy family life there.

2007-03-21 06:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Not true. I am married to a career woman for 27 years. We have two adult daughters, 1 grandson. She is high mgmt in a communications firm, works from home and also takes care of her ill mom. What it took to work was more from meto do household chores, help raise the kids and dogs, with a full time career too. All depends on what you want out of life and what are you willing to give up to obtain it. Today, we would never change one iota of it and have more than we could ever want or need and really wasnt hard at all. Husband and wife just need to work together and itll happen

2007-03-18 11:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0 0

Darling I was doing same as a sweet loveable housewife .And now we r such a position that anytime be can break up.I stopped my work 4 4yrs i lost my career,i lost my confident.And 4 that what i got???BETRY!!!Now m starting my career once more from d very begening but the time i lost can never come back.I have to work more harder to get to my goals.
So ,never never,never think like that.Dont give up,B4 u step into d bettle.
Tomarrow when u will b a sucessful women ur children will feel proud of you.
Husbands want their wife stay at home bcoz they dont want that their wife bcom more sucessful women than them!They r affriad ,Jelious n shellfish sometimes.

2007-03-19 07:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by sherry 3 · 0 0

If he wanted a housewife he should have married a housewife. I'm sure before you two got married you said what your goals where in life and what you wanted to do. Its a little to late now to be wanting a housewife. My husband is happy that I work, I am happy that I work. I still have time for my family and we take care of the house.

2007-03-18 11:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0 0

That is sometimes true, but not always. I am a career woman, I know where I want to go in terms of my career and am clear what type of job I wont take. I would like to think I balance the 2 quite well and I would rather risk not getting promoted than not being home to do homework with my son etc.

2007-03-18 11:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0 0

False full time at home mom's are still career women as well as full time career women that have children and jobs outside the home the married couple become one and share in the responsibilities of both the husband u describe in ur question sounds controlling but if his wife is ok with that teasnack thing who are we to judge

2007-03-18 11:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 1 0

You are 100% correct only for the part of family life, as far as true relationship is concerned they cater for each and every family member as per the actual need. You cant just compare a life of career woman and likes and dislikes of husband. Husbands need to wake up their ideas and has to give the much needed helping hands to their wife in such cases.
I can accept that due to work at office and at home she gets drained out hardly any energy left for children and other relationship. Still if we want to progress and give something good to our children we have to contribute togather, and she too have to be at pain to balance the things. Its very hectic for females compared to men.

2007-03-19 04:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The major problem for career women is some seem to lose there family values there relationship gets lost in the shuffle. There work becomes a priority and there family doesn't come first. Some men have the same problem both lose what should truly be important to them and that's there family and there relationship they both should come first.

2007-03-18 11:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by miester44 5 · 0 0

95% true but 5% wrong. A lady who can handle the whole world so successfully in her career,i think that if she pays 1/2 the attention + love to her husband can also be successful at home.afterall a working husband is hungry for what from her wife - sheer love and affection.So smart lady-here is the key to your success at home. bye. ans by an experienced doctor.

2007-03-18 13:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by saryadoc 2 · 0 0

A career woman can have both depending on how she sets her priorities. The number one priority should be your love or your husband then your family {kids},your job and others. There should be a kind of balance ;none should interchange the other. When your family is happy, you tend to be effective in your job. It never works the other way round. What is the sense in making millions of dollars with no one to share it with.
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2007-03-18 11:42:54 · answer #11 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0 0

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