Am I over him???

Question

I've been broken up with my boyfriend of four years for about 3 months. he's just started to "get over" me and rootin other girls. I havent even thought bout that as i think i could only have sex with a guy that i have strong feelings for. I had to leave my boyfriend coz i couldnt get his brother out of my head and it was affecting our relationship. anyway now that i've found out he's movin on, it hurts and i dont know wether ive dont the right thing. I do love him so much (just not sexually) but what if thats just a phase. I dont know if it is normal to feel this way? I'm so confused. what if i no one else loves me the way he did?

Answer 1

The fact that he's seeing other girls now can hurt regardless, it could be jealousy because you are no longer the girl he pays attention to and shows affection. The fact that you broke up with him because you were thinking about another guy shows that you really didn't love him as much as you think, otherwise thinking about someone else wouldn't have worked up to you doing that (it's okay to fantasize once in a while, but to have someone on your mind all the time and to make that a problem in your relationship means its time to go-- you did the right thing.)
If you start going out and having fun (even with just girl friends) you'll start to find that life can be better than how you're feeling. Eventually you'll date again and you will find someone who makes you feel wonderful. There are infinite second chances at love.

Answer 2

Have you ever heard the phase didn't want them until we could not have them, it might just be a case of that, so I would give it a little more time before I worried about it to much.

Answer 3

If u dont love him sexually then u will never have a special bond. u r better off as just freinds.

Answer 4

no one will love you like he did. you have to move on
because there wll definitely be others who will love you
like they do!!!!!!!!!!!!! don't compare.