I am about 2 months pregnant with my second child, and I'm wondering how to break the news to my ex-husband (father of my first)?
He left me for someone else a couple of years ago, but has always accused me of abandoning him and will do anything it takes to maintain his presence in my life. I'm afraid he's going to be jealous and angry and demand answers to all sorts of questions about things that really aren't any of his business.
2007-03-18 04:19:30 · 11 answers · asked by ihatesunsets 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your ex obviously feels you are still his property. Since he is your ex and has moved on to be with another woman, he has no right to be jealous, angry or ask any questions. You're going to have to be strong and stand up to him and tell him. He's the father of your first child and that's all you two should discuss.
When he gets in your face and trys to continue his controling ways, just keep repeating this in your head "He left me for another woman, I owe him nothing".
He sounds a bit psycho saying these type of things but just stick to your guns. Don't ever give him information other than that concerning his child. Good luck and stand strong. He's your ex for a reason.
2007-03-18 04:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got it. Since your divorce is final, its really none of his business. But out of courtesy for him being your ex and father of your first, let him know but dont take any back talk from him. Afterall he let you get away so he no longer has any say so in how you live your life. You owe him no explanation other than letting him no, so you dont have to answer any of his questions. Congrats and good luck
2007-03-18 04:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. It's really none of his business anyway. He has a right to know that his child will have a new sibling and that's it. When and who are really none of his business.
2007-03-18 04:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really isn't any of his business that you are pregnant. The relationship is over and you both have moved on. Don't even stress about it.
2007-03-18 04:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by CeeCee19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the one that left you!! What does he expect for you to wait on him? If it isnt his then dont worry about how he will feel! He didnt care how you felt when he hurt you!! KAram Baby! What comes around goes around!!
2007-03-18 04:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it isnt his, he will find out in due time that you are pregnant. That is nothing you have to answer to him about. You dont have to tell him, you dont have to explain.
2007-03-18 04:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y should you bother abt it. It not his child. Leave it and concentrate on your kids n .... Take care.
2007-03-18 04:27:01 · answer #7 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really none of his business.
2007-03-18 04:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by PuckDog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said EX
correct
you don't have to tell him any thing
tell him it is some sports persons baby
2007-03-18 04:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by matzaballboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tell him since your divorce is final.
2007-03-18 07:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋