I have a friend who is 27, married, and had many sexual relationships prior to marriage. She claims that she is not a very sexual person and that sex is not very important to her. This is completely unfathomable to me. Are there people who truly do not enjoy or care about sex or has she just never had great sex (which is my guess)? Any thoughts, opinions, personal experience, etc?? Thanks. (If there is a better category to post this question, please let me know. I'm new to this!)
2007-03-18 03:47:30 · 3 answers · asked by Kate v.7.0 6 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Uhhhhh....dani. It's not about her personally. I'm curious if this is common among people or not. Why would you take the time for such a stupid post? Oh yeah..2 points.
2007-03-18 03:57:03 · update #1
Thank you for a serious and respectful answer dumpling.
2007-03-18 04:06:21 · update #2
Robin and Spildener...I agree with what you are saying. When I say "great sex", I do not only mean the act itself, but the emotions, atmosphere, and of course, the right person. That is part of my curiousity. I enjoy it much more in mature, secure relationships than I did when I was younger. My friend seems to be happily married which is what got me thinking about the matter. Thanks for your input!
2007-03-18 11:34:49 · update #3
I can relate to this because i also had many sexual relationships before i got married, back in my college days mainly. I never experienced an actual orgasm during intercourse untill recently. When i say recently, i mean a fwe months ago. Before, i enjoyed the foreplay and maybe even attention and closeness i got from it. I don't consider sex a top priority, however i do think it is necessary for a healthy relationship. There were times in one of my previous relationships where we did nto havre sex at all. Looking back now, i think it was the birth control i was on decreasing my sex drive. I tihnk there really are people who do not enjoy sex or care too much about it. They would just assume go on about their business. Perhaps its because they dont have a partner they care about or have never experienced orgasm. Sex is more than just a physical act. This is giong to sound stupid, but when i finally got off during sex i realized that its mental too, for me anyway. I had to get myself into a state of mind so to speak. My point is, maybe they havent met that person who can take them there is why sex is so insignificant. Humans want what feels good. Its only natural to assume that sex doesnt feel good for thse people or they would want it. I hope some of this made sense.
2007-03-18 04:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by Robin L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes this is very common ,some people love it and some people can live without it,its all down to hormon levels in the end
2007-03-18 11:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uh, why do you care about someone elses sex life ?
2007-03-18 10:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Doll. 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋