well he doesn't believed in gods, family members, spouse, his children, friends, himself and even therapy sessions.
2007-03-18 03:44:40 · 32 answers · asked by Mental Head 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This individual does not want others to be in control. He is in denial and afraid to let others point out he has a problem. Since he does not have an established belief system to rely on, of course he will have many problems. The Bible teaches that a fool in his heart says there is no God...a foolish minded person will think he is good enough the way he is and doesn't need to change. You can do nothing for this person. If you are a Christian or some other religion, the only thing more to do for this person is to pray for him. Only God giving him a wake up call can make him a better person. Like Saul on the road to Damascus becoming Paul the Apostle.
2007-03-25 20:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jalapinomex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your questions is confusing what does this person need help with? So he doesn't believe in god that doesn't mean he needs your help. Maybe his family members sucked, his spouse or lack of could be the time in his life, what do you mean he doesn't believe in his kids (Do they lie?), maybe his friends don't understand him and let him down (or ask questions about him to complete strangers on yahoo), maybe he is depressed but if he doesn't want therapy that is his choice.
Trust me you can only help those who want to be helped and you didn't really identify a problem.
2007-03-25 06:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by rosser_girl_68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not impossible but will be extremely tough, everyone has a weakness towards something or even someone, if u can find that weak link, u can help that person, who will then open himself up for others to help him. The only thing u can do now is to spend more time to understand him, or discuss with those around him to find out where his weak spot are, then u can proceed from there, otherwise, there is nothing really much u can do, good luck.
2007-03-18 04:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by firefly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you can't help somebody through words and actions, help them through prayer....it is often forgotten but so extremely effective. I have had this similar situation. Nothing worked with a family member of mine. She was the most impossible of the impossible ... but thats how God works. He takes the most impossible of situations, and turns them around. Just like the cross. He took such an ugly situation (Christ nailed to a cross) and turned it into a most beautiful and glorious thing (the Ressurection, hence, our salvation). Don't lose hope or trust in God. Constant prayer and full trust in God can and will move mountains. You will see. You will be in my prayers. Take care and God bless you, always.
2007-03-23 18:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Many people like that are just looking for the attention that you give them. If you are not carfull you will get sucked into their drama and never get out. They will demand more and more of your energy and time. When you try to get away from them they will manipulate you in any fation nessesary to keep control of you. It is more about control for them and they may not truely understand what they are doing.
For your own mental health, stay away from people like this. If they are threatning their own safety or the safty of others there are leagal things that can be done. Until that happens it is up to you to protect yourself and those around you from this person.
2007-03-23 03:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by w0lfxvii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes as hard as it is u have to stop worrying about it...when hes ready to help himself and realize the horrible situation he is he will...some people are comfortable living in denial and its always easier to see the problems of a person while on the outside looking in
i kno how much it can hurt but try to not pay attention to it, be there to support him if he needs u when he does thats the best thing u can do for him
2007-03-18 04:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by serialshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, however you can utilize "Hard Love" as it's called, where as family and friends stop trying to help, in other words totally cut the problem person from their lives, thus the problem person eventually comes to realize that it is entirely up to them to make the necessary changes in order to better their lives...
2007-03-18 03:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help everyone, it's not your job or within your realm of abilities. And in some cases, leaving them alone is really the only help you can offer, as some people just need to work out their own issues. If he doesn't want your help, respect his wishes and let him deal with things in his own time.
2007-03-26 03:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant help someone who doesn't help them self. I'm not sure what the problem is but hopefully not to serious. If you think he is going to try to take his life, you can call the cops. Other then that not much you can do. If you cant keep watching this person go through whatever this is... tough love. Keep your distance and hopefully it will work itself out.
2007-03-18 04:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is their goal. They want to face the problems themselves. IT is good habit. If u really close to that person, move freely, suggest that person that u can help in these ways. Incase he/she needs any help ask them to come forward to u without any hestation. Make the person that u r the closes then anyone else. Automatically, the person will come to u.
2007-03-25 23:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by Raki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋