how to get closer to friends? without always being the one calling them
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2007-03-18 03:31:40 · 8 answers · asked by alyssaw244 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why wont u call ur friends thats silllyyyy
call them and try to make plans with them
the only way to get closer with people is to hang out with them
2007-03-18 03:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by serialshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who just won't call at all! she couldn't be less bothered. I always did the calling until i just got fed up and just stopped calling or sms-ing. I got new friends who call me just to chat. We're much better friends from just 2 months than me and my first friend were in 2 years! I always needed a reason to call her.
Get new friends - don't stop being friends completely, but there are better ppl out there for you!
2007-03-18 04:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All are acquaintances and human beings.... Theres no longer some thing distinction between contact and real acquaintances... each acquaintances we meet as a Stranger and then we get to understand... would not count number even if its on line or real... All are similar ;) a minimum of information superhighway acquaintances are more beneficial sympathy on us than the acquaintances in real existence..
2016-12-02 04:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain honest and authentic. Be true to who u are and always remain loyal to yourself, and then to them. They'll eventually develop a loyalty and closeness to ur while respecting who u are and what u stand for.
NOTE: Not all will get close to you. Even those who u may seek to really get close to. You must learn to let it go. Stick to those who are true to u. If u continue in the pursuit of those others, u may even lose those who were true to u!!
Good luck!
2007-03-18 03:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Stavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship shouldn't take too much work. just be yourself, and friends will come to you easily. but if you are talking abt existing friends and you have drifted apart, then i suggest planning a small get-together party. forget abt the pride of calling your friends. if you really want to be a real friend and work things out with them, then just do what you think is best!
2007-03-18 03:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by schatz101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without having contact with them how u can be close... keep in touch with them daily and tell them the things u did on that day ask them... speak in a good manner to u r best friends this will make u best...
2007-03-18 03:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Balakumar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya cannot ...if people are not reaching out to you as much as you would like or you are doing all the calling...broaden your circle of friends.........make new friends
2007-03-18 03:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice and friendly towards them and be with them when they need you!
2007-03-18 03:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by MARY JANE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋