She was with another and still called me baby..saying she liked it being able to talk to me about her problems with her new b/f..i said your life is perfect and your in love and her answer was I have feelings..she says we r friends but acts like a female dog....making it hard for me to even like her..yet her friends tell me she speaks highly of me all the time..hard to believe when she is so mean to me on the phone..telling me we have nothing to talk about..yet sounds sad when i am about to hang up..she says she is str8 now and that this man in her life means alot to her..that i deserve someone to love me..so I did and I am slowly moving on..
It was her B-Day yesterday so i send an e-card..she probably deleted it B-4 even reading it..I don't know why it hurts soo much?The knowledge that she hates me? or does she? I don't know anymore..help..
2007-03-18 03:19:50 · 5 answers · asked by Charmer 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I doubt that she hates you. She may hate the implications of your affair since she is now "straight".
I know how much it hurts to give up someone you truly love but if they don't love you back, as much as you love them, it is better in the long run to say goodby.
I would even suggest you don't talk to her at all until you heal and truly move on. If she tries contacting you, be firm and tell her it is just the way it has to be and to please respect your wishes.
Time heals.
2007-03-18 06:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by universatile love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs to be on meds and stop stringing you along. stay as far away from her as you can. its not worth it. sounds like she has control issues. playing you like a fiddle and messing with your emotions is an ego-trip for her. dont play into her game, knowing whats going on and doing nothing to stop it only makes it your fault if you get hurt. get rid of the problem and deny her the control she so desperately needs and move on with your life.
2007-03-18 10:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's only tryin to have e best of both worlds... to b able to feel loved n superior in front of u... so u either try to end this whole thing by stop contacting her.. or tell her straight in her face.. if she wants u as her fren.. she gotta behave e right way... u deserved to love urself better.. i was once in a similar issue to urs.. except tat we dun talk on phone.. then i realized one day it all sounded too wrong to me.. n i juz let go... slow? yes. painful? yes. struggled? definitely.. but after i finally let go... feeling better? no doubt, definitely. try it.
2007-03-18 10:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow uh.. I don't have an answer but this certainly does make for some great drama. Anyone got popcorn?
2007-03-18 10:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go strait...you'll have WAY less problems.......I really don't know why people have to be "Gay"
2007-03-18 10:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by Unknown Artist~ 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋