With my 1st b/friendi thought it was because it wasmy 1st time and everything but even with my 2nd its still the same. We use soo much lube but i still get dry real quick and as soon as it starts to hurt it doesnt matter if we use more lube coz the pain and discormfort jst doesnt go away.HELP!!
2007-03-18 02:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by hotstuff 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If it hurts during sex then there is something wrong, whether it is your first time or your millionth time sex should be pleasurable not painful, pain is your bodies way of telling you that something is wrong. You need to go to the doctor, have a word with them to see if they can tell you what is wrong, if need be they may need to run tests or at very least can give you some suggestions.
When you have sex it is important to have foreplay prior to penetration, ideally to the point of orgasm, if you are still dry after this then there is something wrong. This may be an issue of hormones, at certain times of your menstrual cycle you will have more lubrication, discharge and cervical mucus, if there are issues with your hormones this may stop your body from producing the lubrication needed.
If it hurts to have sex then you are perfectly within your right to stop having sex until you get this problem resolved, there is no reason for you to keep experiencing pain.
2007-03-18 03:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kasha 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just make sure he's stimulating u enough, if ur not turned on u aint gonna be wet and its gonna hurt. and it might sound a bit gross but try using spit, it's a natural lubricant - readily available - and it wont evaporate as quick as normal lube. if things carry on go c a doc, and dont b nervous. remember they've seen far worse things and its what they get paid for.
just try fooling around, and dont have penetrative sex, and see how u feel. if u feel wet enough and confortable enough then give it another go, but it shouldnt always be about penetration, u can have so much fun without that bit! and it puts extra pressure on u and makes u nervous, and stressed.
2007-03-18 06:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends much on how often you have sex. If you and your new boyfriend only recently got together you might still be getting used to having sex again. Be patient, it is sore in the beginning, but you will get tougher and it will become less and less painful. If not speak to a gynae.
2007-03-18 02:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Amelie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your body is having to get use to it try fooling around and getting you excited might help out. If not contact your doctor and talk to them about it.
2007-03-18 03:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by buddy95 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could ask your GP to refer you to a gynaecologist - pain during sex can be indicative of other problems
2007-03-18 07:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by ************* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might be wrong but are you sure he putting it in the right hole? It's the one on the front side of your body:)
2007-03-18 02:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by Richard K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make sure your are really wet and turned on before he enters you. get him stimulate you or do it your self until you'r really really wet and then you should have no problem. also mybe he should be a bit gentler as well.
2007-03-18 04:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by QueenB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think theres something called vaginus that causes this along with the worry you know its gonna happen.see your gp and use relaxation techniques
2007-03-18 02:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
best natural lube is spit either it can be your partners or if you are masturbating it can be your own
2007-03-18 08:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe have sex in the bath.
2007-03-18 02:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by tazza 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋