for me, sex for the first time was quite painful. I was sore and walking a bit funny the next morning. Sex continued to be painful for the first 10 times or so, but it gradually got better. I know a lot of girls, however, who did not find even their first time very painful. As long as you trust your guy and he is gentle with you you'll be fine, and don't be afraid to say so if you need to stop. Word of advice, the more relaxed and lubricated you are the less it will hurt you. good luck!
2007-03-18 03:37:23
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answered by kerri c 5
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The answer to both parts of that question is: It depends.
Make sure to take your time and that your partner is gentle. If you're not well lubricated it will hurt.
And yes, you may be uncomfortable for a day or two afterwards.
It depends on your body and if you're probably "warmed up" so to speak. Use fingers at first to get used to the feeling and relax before he enters.
The most important thing is to relax. And also, don't be afraid to say stop if it feels too uncomfortable. Sex is a learned behavior, it likely won't be magic and amazing at first.
2007-03-18 12:17:24
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answered by Rayvin 3
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Yup if your partner is too hard on you. It will be painful the next day but it wont be painful for more than 3 or 4 days. If it still hurts after 3 or 4 days, it would be better if you were to consult a doctor.
2007-03-18 03:18:59
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answered by Nonsensical 2
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it can hurt the first time, or it can hurt the first 20 times. It hurt me the first time and it hurts me every time we have sex. My vagina area is not really sore as much as the hymen itself where it has been stretched and such, there can also be bleeding, I bleed after sex every time too.
2007-03-19 14:34:51
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answered by Anonymous
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depends from one person to another,
the 1st time i had a sex,it was hella pain!! but it doesnt sore the next day.
my suggestion to u,if ur vagina keep sore for more then 4days better go to doc and check
2007-03-18 03:09:04
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answered by Anonymous
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no reallly depends on the girlif he takes it slow no i shouldint hurt but if hes rough then i say ya it might hurt the next day
2007-03-18 02:48:06
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answered by Anonymous
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it depends on how rough he is and your body. If you are really tensed it will hurt you but if you are relaxed it want hurt that much.
2007-03-18 04:00:01
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answered by buddy95 3
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Yes . I f it is not carried out properly and if the hymen of the female is torn during the sexual intercourse.
2007-03-18 02:28:05
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answered by Anonymous
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