when i walk home from school near my house there are three kids around 12-13 years old. and i am 15 these kids call me names while i am walking pass them.they started on me for no reason at all. they insluted me and call me names before and mock me about my hair and every thing. i said i would beat them up if they continue. i have beaten up of them up before.He punched me in the nose and made it bleedand i kinda switched. I don' think of myself as a strong person and i dont wish to beat someone up.but i punched him in his nose and kneed him three times in his gut.
Then it quited down and when i walked pass they didnt say anything.Thats the way i like it. but now they started to inslut me again and when i said i would beat them up they said they would break my nose again.I walked off that day and next time i see them(it's usealy on a thursday) i want to beat them all up and make them shut it for once and for all.
All i want to do is walk home without someone insluting me.
2007-03-18 02:11:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK I KNOW THIS SITUATION IS HARD FOR YOU, BUT HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT OF STOPING AND JUST TALK TO THEM?? THEY MIGHT BE WANTING SOME ATTENTION FROM YOU. SOMETIMES TALKING GETS YOU MORE THAN JUST BEATING UP ANYONE. VIOLENCE DOES NOT GETS YOU ANYWHERE.
LOOK AT WHATS GOING ON IN IRAQ, INSTEAD OF THOSE IDIOTS POLITICIANS SITTING DOWNS AND LISTEN TO EACH OTHER, THEY DONT, THEY RATHER GO TO WAR AND KILL INNOCENT PEOPLE WHO HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH IDIOTICS WHO HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO THAN SIT ON THEIR BEHINDS.
JUST TALK TO THEM. MAKE A CONNECTION. ASK THEM WHY OR WHAT IS MAKING THEM DO THIS. BELIEVE ME THEIR ANSWER MIGHT SURPRISE YOU.
2007-03-18 02:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by ââ¢Â¥*~áƦ~NYSunrise~áƦ~*ââ¢Â¥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is hard, why don't you stop, and try to talk to them, do not get angry. see if there is something in particular that they want or need from you. it is easy to attack in a pack, kind of like coyotes, but if you try to relate to them person to person, it is harder to be jerks. i would say something like hey, how you guys doin today, before they start? whatever they say, don't get mad. start talking about sports or whatever they might have an interest in. no matter what they say, don't fall into it, be almost like you are not hearing them, just keep up the friendly chatter. it will most likely frustrate them into being bored bothering you, and who knows, maybe they will become at least civil acquaintances..
good luck
2007-03-18 09:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by darlin12009 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know whats good for you ?
A MAKEOVER .
they will stop . promise me . (:
2007-03-18 09:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by ♣valentine melons♣ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋