M in love with my best frnd of past6yrs but unable to tel him that i love him for fear to his rejection & loss of his frndshp. We both r from diff cities but constantly keep in touch via phone calls & sms. I have got many prposals for marriage but dunno y cant convince myself to fall for someonw else. Whereas my best frnd whom i love is unaware of my feelings but sometimes he tels me that m more than a frnd to him in a diff way??on askin himwhether he likes me or not he does not respond..I dont care if he is poor or ugly wat i love is his nature n i know evn if he rejects me ill cont to love him dearly..i think he's gonna get married this yr soon.. shall i tel him personally bout my feelings or keep quiet so that his future life does not get affected by my decision.Pls help me frnds?I tried to divert my mind many times but failed. I love him but cant get him..his family wont allow him to get married untill they bring the girl of their choice..m i making a mistake by fallin for him?
2007-03-18 02:05:47 · 10 answers · asked by mita_chwdhry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds as if this involves arranged marriages. If he is going to follow his parents' wishes and marry the one they choose, then perhaps it would be best to keep quiet and retain the friendship you so dearly cherish. And, a question for you: are you expected to enter into an arranged marriage yourself? True friendship, such as you describe, is a wonderful gift. If he seems content, happy, then maybe the kindest thing would be to stay best friends and wish him happiness in his life. Sometimes the hardest thing for you is the most loving thing to do for another.......
2007-03-18 02:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by Carol G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listn if u keep waiting and let him get married then i think u are doing a stupid thing,u must tell the guy what he really mean to u,i know its hard but just try.the worse thing will happen is that hell get married right but u know when u have told him how u really feel,u will feel much lighter,just open ur heart,i promise u 99 percent he will be urs,then u can go handle parents afterwards,go talk dnt wait
2007-03-18 06:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by Pawan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Nobodies life is ever affected by someone proposing them.
2. If u feel for him, go ahed and propose, him . Even if does'nt think of u the sme way, he will defintely continue being ur friend. u will nt loose his friendship jus by proposing.
3.If he agrees , how to make his prents agree is his part of role, let himply it, even if u worry it illnt mke a difference. If he loves u he cn definately change his parents mind
2007-03-18 03:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by priya k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, no guy is extremely worth loss of life over :) secondly, i think of you're being too hasty in questioning that for the time of 18 days you ought to finally finally end up a perfect better half after the 1st one ditched you. (It took me 18 years to locate my 2d :)> and that guy I married. i might earnestly recommend which you're taking it sluggish and not be so impulsive including your "falling in love" exercises. A courting takes time or perhaps nevertheless the guy did recommend to you, he would desire to have have been given chilly ft because of the fact the courting remains too new. i'm hoping you probably did no longer sleep with him? Cos in case you probably did, that would account for his no longer wanting to have something to do with you. men many times turn remote from extreme people because of the fact the female will become too clingy and too burdensome and one beneficial hearth technique of dropping him is to furnish him all, your concepts, your coronary heart and your physique, while the courting has no longer had time to alter into some thing greater extreme. do no longer dedicate suicide, instead, get dolled up and pass out and meet yet another chap, there are 2 to a minimum of one in men obtainable for each woman:)..
2016-10-01 02:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by fogleman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about your feelings immediately before its too late.See if you get married to someone else and still regret that you could have told ur friend...you will be spoiling lives of four.If he is not interested also TRUST me you will not ever loose a FRIEND in him.Its my personal experience that we still are best friends so dont think much tell him frankly.All the best.
2007-03-19 19:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is never a mistake to fall in love. I think you should tell him how you feel. also tell him not to let your feelings affect his marige but let him know you will always be a friend and aways be there for him. Not physicly but emotionaly.
2007-03-18 02:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by God's Prophet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him now, because he might feel the same feelings. You never know if he liked you and he kept it a secret. So tell him and you will feel relieved later on.
2007-03-18 02:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by TinkT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him now or you will regret rest of your life. and you will be miserable if you wont tell him. tell him and see what he do.if he loves you he will go against his family if don't then move on there is someone else for you. good luck
2007-03-18 02:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by mitts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget him and move ahead in life. You will meet your sweetheart in life soon.
2007-03-18 02:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by Rahul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will ask u to disclose this to ur friend ....that u love him
2007-03-21 04:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋