can i take my lover?
2007-03-18 01:52:52 · 13 answers · asked by butterfly_q8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Interesting question...
If you are a part of Western Civilization, taking a lover while married is often frowned upon. There are some people who openly engage in extra-marital dalliance with the blessing of their spouses but that tends to be the exception.
People are inherently jealous and taking a lover can cause problems with both your spouse and your lover as one or the other (or both) will eventually get jealous. Also, take into account your feelings if your spouse takes a lover...
2007-03-18 02:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking a lover while married is called "adultery" and it's grounds for divorce in pretty much every state. It used to be A CRIME in many states but I'm not sure that it's still a crime.
Regardless, it's a bad thing to do. Get it? Marriage means you only sleep with your spouse and your spouse only sleeps with you. If that's too difficult, don't marry.
2007-03-18 09:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by QUEEN OF CORONA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes anyone can attend your wedding so there was no problem in taking your lover to watch the ceremony. I hope he enjoyed it!
2007-03-18 19:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, when you are married, your husband is your lover. If you don't want to be monogamous, don't get married.
2007-03-18 09:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only on Wednesdays
2007-03-18 08:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you just not marry?Ever thought about that Einstein?
2007-03-20 19:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but don,t get caught
2007-03-18 09:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you will find you are then in the divorce courts on the grounds of adultary.
2007-03-18 12:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. you can do what you want and pay for it if you get caught.
2007-03-18 09:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don get caught .
2007-03-18 14:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋