i thought that things will be okay and everything will turn alright. before me and my supervisor were close.
until i find him nice and got a big crush on him. what i did was i text him (though he dosent know that it was me). we became close. theres no day or time that he will not talk to me or will say hi. in short we are somehow flirting but we know the restriction. until one day, with no reason he didnt say anything to me. i dont know what happend. its like we are so near and yet so far. the texting stop already. its gone. and i just lost the person i regard for the reason that i really dont know. what should i do, whenever i see him i feel so sad, i want to ask him but im thinking twice. what should i do? i need your advice on this.
2007-03-18 01:44:49 · 14 answers · asked by <fish_me> 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im hurting, and he is ignoring me.
2007-03-18 01:45:47 · update #1
he's not married
2007-03-18 01:51:02 · update #2
bad thing about this is --a workplace romance.
2007-03-18 01:55:04 · update #3
There are two things you should consider. One, he is not comfortable with crossing the line, and does not want to jeopardize or complicate the work relationship. Two, he may feel uncomfortable with where the flirting has led. Work relationships are not always successful because people rush in to them without realizing that the fallout could be bad. If he really likes you, he will find a way to you. Be polite and nice, and if you feel you have to ask him, do it outside of work- in person. No more texting, that is only safe until everyone starts reading something into them that may or may not be there. Be careful of losing your heart on this one, sounds like you may already have. Good Luck.
2007-03-18 02:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by stormzsecret 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be he was told by his superiors to knock off the flirting with a co-worker. Workplace romances rarely work out. I'd move on and find someone else outside the workplace to conduct a relationship and just be nice to the supervisor.
2007-03-18 08:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirtations are not life long commitments.
He had the fun now its time to move on he knew when now you do the same. There are other people out there and being close to a supervisor at work can start dire consequences(single or married) if you value your job find a new guy away from work to flirt and text.
2007-03-18 08:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could it be both your flirtations thru the texting has became 'open' to all those around your workplace and he felt that to keep his job secure, is to stop these flirtations.
Find a suitable time to ask him for the reason.
2007-03-18 09:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this feels really stupid. I don't like stuff like that too. With no reason just finish. I like people talking and telling me face to face what's going on.
Why are you not writing some letter to him and ask? Talking perhaps at the work not so easy. Try just this way and don't worry to much.
2007-03-18 08:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all who did you tell? Whoever else knows about this probably told him and that is what happened and if you really wanting something else out of that you should of told him in the first place or maybe he just reralize that office romance never works
2007-03-18 08:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by toofavorable 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i will bet hes married is he? if he is run the other way and thank god nothing happened between you but few words and stuff he could have come to his senses. or he knew that its not too do flirt witht he hired workers. and that you should learn not to be with the bosses and all that either work is work and should be regarded as such so be ware its trouble if you do.
2007-03-24 22:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your hurting so much you need to talk to him face to face then he will have no excuse to ignore you ask him why things are changing has he got a wife? if so he might have been feeling guilty or he has fallen for you and he doesnt want you to know just incase you have no feelings for him men can be withdrawing when there hiding something ask him you need to find out what he is hiding from you
2007-03-18 08:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
End the "romance" it'll get in the way of your work and remember he has the power to fire you. Be careful
2007-03-25 00:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by fuchetrookbies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think he may have found out it was you. gfriend (if you dont mind me calling you that), you should probaly just drop it and fast. office romace dose not end well.
best of wishes to you...
2007-03-24 05:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by jamie m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋