I am a gay , I like to make love with males ,even we don't quite know each other ,however , the people in my school know this by some way, they look upon me , how could I change this situation?
2007-03-18 01:19:52 · 6 answers · asked by xujun99663311 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dude...you should not make love to males you don't know and then let people find out. Try to get to know your lover, but then keep it a secret...otherwise the kids in school will go berserk.
2007-03-18 01:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
What are you just blowing off school friends? Whatever you are doing, having sex with strangers is very dangerious.
They will take advantage of you, then maybe brag about it?
You have to find yourself a steady boyfriend, you like sex, you can make love as much as you want with him.
They know about you anyway so whats the difference if they know you have a steady boyfriend.
Maybe if they see you with the same boy all the time they will respect you for that.
You have a bad reputation at your school, maybe because you are cruseing bathrooms or gay areas, fair enough you like sex but you must be more descreate.
I hope you find someone soon because having casual sex can be dangerious & young boys are attractive to preditory males who may assault you or even rape you.
Please be carefull, I hope you find a boyfriend soon because I feel its only a matter of time before you get badly hurt, if not by your school friends, some child molesting creep.
All the best, David :(xxx
2007-03-18 03:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by wowdavid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you don't know the people you are having sex with, you are putting yourself in a situation to be talked about or looked down upon. You should think more of yourself. Someone needs to take the time to know you before having sex with you. And sex can KILL, so not knowing the person puts you in serious danger, as well as being disrespected by others.
2007-03-18 01:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the above. Stop being a ho and start showing some self respect and gay pride. And quit telling everyone at school that you like to **** random dudes...not a good reputation, no matter what sex you are.
2007-03-18 01:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by greenbuddha03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your choice and you are truly comfortable with it than don't let anyone else tell you it is wrong. I would just hope that you use protection if you don't know your partners very well, otherwise you are putting yourself in real danger.
Unfortunately, people are going to look down on you because you are an obvious minority and it's easier to put you down rather than get to know you. You need to be confident in who you are and realize that they are trying to convince YOU to be ashamed of something that you are perfectly comfortable with and that is perfectly normal. If you don't apologize for it and you aren't ashamed of yourself they hold no power over you, they are simply shaming themselves with their petty gossip.
2007-03-18 01:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by meraphetamine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a whore. If you start showing some respect for yourself then others just might do the same.
2007-03-18 01:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋